18/08/2026
To the brain, these statements aren't just words; They function as evidence of danger, which can further trap the person in a chronic pain loop, as the body is then viewed as broken and unsafe and therefore has very few reasons to believe they should not be in pain.
It often leads to pain catastrophizing & fear-avoidance behaviours, such as avoiding normal activities to dodge expected pain.
It's a very natural reaction.
Few people are ever offered any credible reasons to believe otherwise; it's not only clinical language, either. A friend's story about their pain getting worse. A family member who ended up having surgery for something similar.
The very good news. This cycle can be broken.
With simple strategies, like education on pain neuroscience (not as boring as it sounds).
Change beliefs about what pain means to lower emotional panic.
Nervous system regulation exercises.
Working with a pain coach/hypnotherapist.
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