07/06/2026
Just preparing my talk about Selective Mutism in Autistic children and young people for The Autism & ADHD Show in London on Saturday 20th June at the Business Design Centre.
My session is called Safety Before Speech which iss something I feel genuinely passionate about.
For years, the first question in Selective Mutism intervention has been: "How do we get this child talking?" I want to suggest a different question: "What does this child need in order to feel safe enough to communicate?"
Because speech doesn't arrive through pressure. It arrives through safety. In this session I'll be sharing:
→ Why starting with speech elicitation may not always be the right first step
→ What Polyvagal Theory tells us about why speech becomes unavailable
→ The SMART STEPS model — a framework for assessing what lies underneath communication
→ Case studies from practice, including autistic young people who said simply: "I just can't"
→ Why sometimes, when we stop chasing speech and start supporting the nervous system, speech arrives anyway
This session is relevant for speech and language therapists, psychologists, SENCOs, teachers, anyone working with or supporting autistic children and young people with Selective Mutism and parents.
All sessions at the show are free to access once you're inside (first come, first served), and CPD certified.
The show runs 19–20 June at the Business Design Centre, London. Tickets at autismadhdshow.co.uk
I'd love to see you there. Come and say hello afterwards. I always learn as much from the conversations after a talk as from the talk itself.