17/06/2026
When change isn't invited into your life.
Continuing our topic on change .. ..there are times when we experience change which wasn't our choice. It can be sudden and dramatic sending out shock waves you dont want to experience.
This may be loss of someone, a job, an illness diagnosed, an accident.
It may be a life event, which you sort of knew would happen but its still not welcome and has just really knocked you back.
Uninvited changes cause us to rethink in big ways, that can be daunting. It can take time to process what has happened and why - and it can be completely overwhelming. We have no choice but to adapt, and sometimes we need a little bit of support whilst we go through this process.
Maybe people around you will understand how overwhelmed you feel, maybe they won't.
There are all kinds of emotions that come with uninvited change, and you may need a little bit more patience and kindness through these times - from others and towards yourself.
Whatever uninvited changes you might be going through right now, remember that there is no script for the reaction to it. We hope you get the support and understanding that you need.