16/05/2026
When we had our first child in 2018, we'd only been living in Canterbury for two years. Other than my brother and sister-in-law, who both worked full time, we didn't know anyone else. Our friends and other family lived all over the UK so we didn't have many people who we could nip to see for a cuppa and offload.
Working in London didn't really give us an opportunity to meet people here, so when we had Felix we had little support.
We never did NCT or other antenatal groups so when my husband went back to work it was lonely, I would force myself to go to every group going to meet friends. It didn't happen straight away, it took months to first meet people that I thought I wanted to invest in. Then to get to a point where we have a strong network it's taken about five years.
It's not easy to meet people who you think are your people. And when you have children it can be hard to find the time, motivation and energy. Not forgetting the chance to have a proper conversation without having to run after your child!
My personal experience in this was another reason I wanted to create our pregnancy and mothers circles. To create opportunities for people to meet others, not necessarily to meet friends for life, but to give people the chance to meet others who maybe going through similar things to them so we feel less alone. And if you do meet friends for life then that's amazing.
So if you are going through a similar experience to what I did, our groups may just be for you 🌟
Take a look at our website to find out more and get in touch with any questions.
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