FlourishHer

FlourishHer Helping women 40+ create simple yet powerful wellness habits for a thriving midlife.FlourishHer founder. How? Why this mattered to me?

I'm Michelle a 49 year old midlife woman and Wellness Habits Coach. I live in Canterbury with my husband Rob and our 2 teens, Sonny & Martha. I've always worked in roles where people have been at the centre of what I do...... but I'll admit I haven't always looked after my mind & body. An unbalanced diet, excess processed food and alcohol, no exercise and a smoker with no focus on my mental healt

h. My weight was increasing and generally, I wasn't feeling great. Starting a family in my 30's prompted a couple of wellness changes, but the magic moment came for me when at 35, I started my career in Health & Wellness. I learned the key principles in what supports us to live in better health, such as; nutrition, healthy weight loss, sleep, movement and emotional wellbeing . Along with techniques on how to apply them in real life. I've been priviledged to have worked with hundreds of adults, over 1000's of hours and I've seen how small, steps and personalised support can help people thrive in their life. In short it changed my whole life. I walked my talk, explored and applied the health training/behaviour change techniques to myself and by taking one step at a time, I began to thrive in my mind & body, which is where I am today. As a midlife, perimenopausal woman, I'm fully aware of the transition our body goes through during this phase of our lives along with the challenges that may arise. It's my passion and purpose in helping women like you to thrive, feel good and live the midlife you want.

September can feel like a little fresh start…After a hot summer of busy diaries, holidays, family, work, and looking aft...
22/08/2026

September can feel like a little fresh start…

After a hot summer of busy diaries, holidays, family, work, and looking after everyone else. September can feel like just the right time to pause and come back home to ourselves.

And that’s exactly what we’ll be doing at our next FlourishHer, women’s gathering in Canterbury🧡

WELCOME HOME

An uplifting evening to pause, reflect and reconnect with you.
I’ll also be introducing The Flourish Way , four simple practices that sit at the heart of FlourishHer and my coaching:
Reconnect • Reframe • Nurture • Shine ✨
There’ll be our usual meaningful Flourish Conversations, gentle reflection, practical tools and plenty of warmth and connection.
No fixing. No pressure to reinvent yourself.
Just a little space to remember what helps you flourish.

Tuesday 2 September
The Drapers Arms, Canterbury
6.45–8.20pm

I’d love to welcome you 🧡✨

Booking link in Bio

📸 marthacole The Pig Hotel 🙏🏻✨.

A little update ….. if you were planning to join us for our exclusive FlourishHer & CHALK evening on 19 August. ☀️August...
18/08/2026

A little update ….. if you were planning to join us for our exclusive FlourishHer & CHALK evening on 19 August.

☀️August has turned out to be a busy month for many of us, holidays, full diaries and some much needed time out.

I’ve also had an unexpected thyroid operation this month and, although I’m recovering well, my energy is radiating a little lower than usual. Taking some of my own Flourish guidance, I’m listening to my body and giving myself the space I need to recover 🧡

With that in mind, the wonderful CHALK team and I have decided to postpone our evening until towards the end of September.

And there is a lovely upside to waiting a little longer…

September brings a new season and the opportunity to discover even more of CHALK’s gorgeous Autumn/Winter collection.

I’m really looking forward to bringing us together for what I know will be a very special evening.

New date and booking information will follow shortly.

Love
Michelle ✨.

If you've been thinking about coming along to our special FlourishHer evening at Chalk-on-Sea, this is your little nudge...
17/08/2026

If you've been thinking about coming along to our special FlourishHer evening at Chalk-on-Sea, this is your little nudge. 🧡
This Weds (19th) we'll have the beautiful store all to ourselves for an evening of connection, conversation, inspiration and a little style.
No pressure.�No expectations.�Just a lovely group of women taking a couple of hours to pause, chat, browse and enjoy some time for themselves.
If your summer has felt busy, this is your invitation to do something just for you.
I'd absolutely love to welcome you.
Booking link is in my bio, or send me a message if you'd like to know more.
Michelle 🧡✨

Just a little reminder that our second FlourishHer evening this August is something really special... 🧡✨Join us on Wedne...
12/08/2026

Just a little reminder that our second FlourishHer evening this August is something really special... 🧡✨
Join us on Wednesday 19 August for an exclusive after-hours evening at Chalk-on-Sea.
We'll have the beautiful store all to ourselves for an evening of connection, conversation, style and a little time just for you.
Browse Chalk's gorgeous new collection, enjoy a relaxed FlourishHer atmosphere, and receive a £10 voucher to spend on the night.
If you've been meaning to make some time for yourself this summer, I'd love you to join us.
Spaces are limited, so do book if you'd like to come.
Link in bio, or just drop me a message if you have any questions.
Michelle 🧡✨

✨ Even the brightest lanterns need tending ✨We spend so much of our life lighting the way for everyone else.September is...
07/08/2026

✨ Even the brightest lanterns need tending ✨
We spend so much of our life lighting the way for everyone else.
September is your gentle invitation to pause... and gently light your own.
Not because you're broken.
Not because you've lost yourself.
But because your light matters too 💛.
At our next FlourishHer evening, I'll be sharing ‘The Flourisher's Way’ philosophy that underpins everything I do, from FlourishHer to my one-to-one coaching.
Together we'll create the space for uplifting conversations and illuminating connecting... each leaving with one ever so gentle promise to ourselves.
I'd love you to join us.
On- Weds 2 September�At- The Drapers Arms, Canterbury �From- 6.15 8.15
Welcome Home.
With love,
Michelle 💛✨
Link to book your space in Bio, any questions, reach out.

These are just some of the words shared on our session last night on ‘Flourishing Pleasure’ our sexual wellness session ...
04/08/2026

These are just some of the words shared on our session last night on ‘Flourishing Pleasure’ our sexual wellness session for midlife women in collaboration with Smile Makers Collection . What a truly inspiring night, I absolutely loved delivering the session and every one of the flourishers who attended, fully embraced our session fully with curiosity, openess and enthusiasm. Together, we learned, explored, played, shared and laughed - an evening of power and connection held at the beautiful Café du Soleil, Canterbury. Our next event is wed 19 Aug - Chalk on Sea. exclusive shopping evening. Followed by Wed 2 Sept - Welcome Home’ at The Drapers Arms. Thank you to all those who continue to support the FlourishHer space 💪🏻💫. New women always warmly welcomed. Love Michelle 🧡💫. Booking in Bio.

✨ Welcome Home ✨The summer can be wonderful...Full of family, holidays, laughter, making memories and looking after ever...
04/08/2026

✨ Welcome Home ✨

The summer can be wonderful...
Full of family, holidays, laughter, making memories and looking after everyone else.
But somewhere amongst all of that, it’s easy to become just a little quieter ourselves, not lost, just a touch quieter.
September always feels like a gentle invitation to pause, take a breath and come home to ourselves again.
At our next FlourishHer evening, I’ll be sharing something I’ve been gently developing over the past 2 years…
The Flourisher Way
The philosophy that underpins everything I do, from our FlourishHer evenings, to my keynote talks, to my one-to-one coaching.
Together, we’ll explore four simple practices that can help us navigate midlife with greater awareness, self-compassion and confidence:
💛Reconnect
🌼Reframe
☀️Nurture
✨ Shine
There’ll be space to reflect, meaningful conversations, gentle coaching, and the warmth and connection that makes FlourishHer feel so, well flourishing 😊.
If you’ve been longing for an evening that’s less about doing... and more about simply being...
I’d love to welcome you along:

Tuesday 2nd September
The Drapers Arms, Canterbury
6-8pm
Booking in link, reach out to chat.
With love,
Michelle 🧡💫

02/08/2026

If someone had told me a few years ago that I'd be modelling for a clothing brand in my 50s, I honestly wouldn't have believed them.
When the amazing team at Chalk first asked me, I felt flattered... but were they sure?
But as I got to know the women behind the business, I realised this was about so much more than clothes.
It was about celebrating real women.
As I approached 50, I became more aware of the conversations so many women were having. Feeling overlooked, irrelevant and feeling like the were becoming less visible. Research reflects this too, but hearing it from women in our own community made it feel very real.
It made me stop and think.
How could I encourage other women to step into the light if I wasn't willing to do the same?
So I said yes ✨
Not because I saw myself as a model, but because I wanted to be part of something that celebrates women exactly as they are.
Every photoshoot has stretched me just a little... and with each one, my confidence has quietly grown.
That's one of the reasons I'm so excited to be collaborating with Chalk on 19 August at their Chalk-on-sea Store in Westgate.
It’s not just about fashion.
It’s about women coming together, supporting one another, and remembering that every one of us deserves to feel seen.
I'd love you to join us.
With love,
Michelle 🧡✨
Booking link in Bio, reach out with any questions.

✨ Our next FlourishHer evening is all about female ‘Flourishing Pleasure’Together in collaboration with the pioneering s...
01/08/2026

✨ Our next FlourishHer evening is all about female ‘Flourishing Pleasure’

Together in collaboration with the pioneering smilemakerscollection, we’ll be exploring women’s sexual wellbeing through honest conversation, practical insights and the kind of education so many of us may never have learned.

A welcoming, safe, fun and uplifting evening in a beautiful space, where every woman can feel informed, empowered and connected ✨
New women always welcomed.

✨ Monday 3 August
💫 Café du Soleil, Canterbury
💫 6.30–8.30pm

Spaces are limited and filling up, so if you’d love to join us, book via the link in my insta bio or reach out to me.

With love,

Michelle 🧡✨

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