12/02/2023
โค๏ธโ๐ฉน When we suffer from an abandonment wound, we experience a constant fear of rejection in the background in our intimate life.
๐ช The abandonment wound can show up in different areas of our intimate life and can destroy the sacredness of a relationship. In one moment, youโre experiencing deep love and intimacy and in the next moment, youโre already feeling fear losing this person.
๐ก๏ธ This creates a deep level of unsafety, and lack of security. You now start to build a wall, put armor around your heart to protect yourselfโฆyet at the same time, you cannot suppress the desire within you to open yourself to deep love.
๐ The reason why the abandonment wound continues to show up, is not necessarily because we continue being abandoned by others. Its because we continue to abandon OURSELVES.
๐ซ We continue to abandon our truth and our heart's safety in order to protect ourselves from being abandoned. This only leads to feeling stuck in a never-ending cycle of feeling rejected, neglected and abandoned.
๐ค Why do we get needy and attached?
๐ Because we associate the experience of love that has always taken place in our own heart with something external.
๐ฃ๏ธ Remember: Nothing external can give you love, OR take love away from you. The only thing someone can do is EVOKE the connection with your own heart which paves the path to the INTERNAL experience of love. Its always an internal experience.
๐ Connect with the love inside your own heart. Donโt wait for someone in order for you to experience love. We carry the entire love of the universe inside our own heart.
โค๏ธโ๐ฅ๐ช When someone appears in your life, then they will simply amplify your experience of love, and will amplify the connection with our own heart. This is true love.
I love you.
-Jackie ๐น
