19/03/2022
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) have been linked to worse premenstrual tension PMT symptoms.
Maybe your parent was an excessive habitual alcohol drinker or substance abuser – they still managed to hold down a day job and believed they didn’t have a problem because they were financially successful, but were highly emotionally volatile – anger being their go to mood when drunk?
Maybe you would sit at the top of the stairs most nights listening to your parents’ toxic arguments?
Maybe a parent would come into your room at night waking you up, telling you that they were leaving because your mum’s throwing them out? (Maybe you pretended to be asleep during these regular intrusions)
Maybe your parent hit you as a child (a slap, a fist, a wooden spoon etc.)?
Maybe your parent repeatedly locked you in the downstairs toilet as a form of punishment?
Maybe you were sent to bed without food and locked in your bedroom?
Maybe you were bullied by an older sibling or siblings?
Maybe a parent emotionally abused you, regularly putting you down, telling you how successful they are and how you will never amount to anything, because you are just like the other parent?
Maybe your drunk parent fell and hit their head when you were a child, ending up in hospital for a month on a life support machine, whilst during that time you overheard your mum saying he might die? Maybe on the journey home from the hospital, you witnessed the parent with the brain injury releasing their safety belt and opening the door whilst the car was doing 70 mph?
Maybe you witnessed your parents being physically violent towards one another? Maybe you and your siblings had to run from your home to your grandparents house at night, because you’d just witnessed your mum being hit?
Maybe you witnessed one parent locking the kitchen door to prevent the other parent from entering - whilst the other parent screamed “Open the door or I’ll kick the door down”?
Maybe your parents separated or divorced? (Or maybe they go back together and the household turned abusive again).
Maybe you were separated from the twin you loved at the tender age of 6 who was sent to live 100's of miles away from you.
Maybe you’re thinking I haven’t experienced emotional abuse, I was the lucky one because, whilst my dad bullied my brother, he liked me, so was nicer to me - witnessing a sibling or parent being bullied can have long-term damaging effects on your physiology, nervous system, personality and menstrual cycle.
“Along with familial violence, abuse or neglect, and parental separation or death, any event that undermines a child’s sense of bonding, safety, and security is defined as an ACE” (Curtis, 2021). ACEs are linked to increased likelihood of psychosis, coronary heart disease, depression, premature death etc. When we witness or experience bad things, our body contracts - I know all of mine did when I experienced every single one of the above ACEs. Now when the body contracts into a defense physiology, this can cause chronic tension patterns in the body, especially within the hip flexors which are the muscles vital in our "Flight response", these along with tight hamstrings and a few other can tighten as cortisol rises which can tilt our pelvis causing pain similar to sciatica on the run up to a woman's menstrual bleed.
There is now clear evidence suggesting that childhood maltreatment can increase the risk of worse premenstrual symptoms or PMDD later in life by a whapping 6.7 times if the abuse was s*xual, 2.6 times if the abuse was emotional and 2.1 times in cases of severe physical abuse (Elizabeth Bertone-Johnson, 2014). There’s also an increased risk of fibroids for women who experience early-life abuse (Boynton-Jarrett R, 2011)
I have devised a system called PMT Release which releases premenstrual tension (PMT), premenstrual Exacerbation (PME) and Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) from people's lives and I am looking for people affected with these disorders to take part in a case study.
Do you know anyone who suffers with unmanageable symptoms on the run up to their menstrual bleed? Mood swings: anger, anxiety, sadness, depression, overwhelm, ADHD, brain fog. Pain: migraines / headaches, belly, back, thigs, b***s. nausea, IBS. Insomnia, restless leg syndrome and so much more I can help them.
I would be grateful if you would flag them up to me - the case study starts in June - and is online, so they can live anywhere in the world that has an internet connection - thanks xx