22/05/2026
Imagine that you are walking through the mountains one day. You are on a narrow path. To the right of you is a deep valley. The sun is out. The weather is warm. Everything is going well. Then all of a sudden the path gives way, your feet go from under you and down you go into the valley below. You land at the bottom, relatively unharmed. The bottom of the valley is a quagmire. It is damp, grey and stinky and to add insult to injury it starts to rain.
Your natural instinct is, perhaps, to try to climb back up to your old path, but there is a scree slope in the way, so you get so far and then slide back down, hurting your hands and knees in the process. It doesn’t look like you are going to be able to get back up.
You might spend lots of time trying to understand how you got to where you are. Why did the path give way? Why didn’t you see it coming? Why did you choose to go for a walk that day? While that might help next time you are walking along a similar path, it’s not going to get you out of the valley.
What are your choices? Well, you can sit down in the mud and wait in the hope that a helicopter will come along and lift you out of the situation, but that just gets you a wet bottom.
You can run around aimlessly in the hope that you will stumble onto a different path out of there, but that just leaves you feeling confused or hopeless.
Or you can focus your eyes on the horizon, look towards the far off mountains and start walking in that direction, not knowing whether the weather will get better or worse, not knowing whether the terrain will improve or not, putting one foot in front of another, not knowing how far or fast you can go. Moving on, with commitment.
You may not be able to choose the terrain, the weather, or how quickly you move. But you can still choose a consistent direction and continue, step by step, towards the mountains of desire.