25/02/2026
Kindness in our schools - It’s probably the most important ‘subject’ of our times!
1. Kindness is a powerful force for good in the world. In current times, we need as much of it as possible within our communities. We need to promote it more as we experience more poverty, homelessness, and people fleeing from war.
2. There are many different ways to be kind, and even small acts of kindness can have a huge impact. From holding a door open to volunteering to be a Samaritan, each way of kindness has a trickle effect on other people.
3. Kindness cannot be taught to children by lecturing them about how unkind they are. They have to witness it. It can be learned and practised. Everyone can become kinder with practice.
4. Kindness is contagious. When we see other people being kind, we tend to mimic their behaviour or become inspired to help others without realising it.
5. Kindness acts as a reward in itself. It is linked to better relationships, positive mental health outcomes, and a greater sense of purpose and meaning.
6. Kindness is not a weakness. It is a strength. For instance, it takes strength and courage to be kind when faced with adversity.
7. Kindness is not always easy, especially when we are angry or disillusioned, but small steps rekindle its powerful effects.
8. A precursor to kindness is empathy, and imagining ourselves in the shoes of others is a good starting point. This empathy is the gateway.
9. Often, children need opportunities to experience its positive effects. Visiting old people’s homes, sick neighbours, or helping other children with special needs allows them to put their own worries into better context.
10. Kindness is magnetic. Your favourite teacher was a kind teacher. Being assured that your daughter or son would fall in love with a naturally kind-hearted person would be a great consolation in the minefield of relationships.
Needless to say, parents have the primary role in the promotion of kindness, and schools can only do so much. School is only another avenue where it can be learned and facilitated. By prioritising kindness, we would reduce stress levels and foster a degree of positivity that we all need at the moment.
(C) Shane Martin