14/08/2024
SYSTEMIC FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS/ANCESTRAL HEALING NOW AVAILABLE Message for information
In Systemic Family Constellations founded by Bert Hellinger we are looking at what is behind our patterns/ coping strategies. Research into epigenetics has shown that we carry experiences, health conditions and traits of our ancestors good and bad. Often unconsciously and out of loyalty to a parent/grandparent, we will carry or atone for something in their life that may have been too painful for them to see at that time. As humans we are built for survival and to survive, we develop a distraction, a coping strategy to allow life to carry on. Often taking the form of alcohol, addiction, overwork, excess exercise, financial, any distraction which will avoid looking at the trauma. However, the trauma is not the biggest problem, it is the coping strategy that causes the problems. We survived the trauma if we lived to tell the tale, but it has changed us in some way. Patterns become ways of being, so stuck that it can become impossible to see them. Then secondary emotions come into play i.e. excessive anger, anxiety, avoidance, money issues, relationship problems etc can be attributed to trauma some of which may not be our own or may be from an invalid perspective at a time when cognition was limited. In constellations we can work 1-1 or in a small group, to look at the issue and alongside representatives we can unpick a pattern. There is no judgement and the premise that all belongs and needs to be seen and acknowledged in order to be released with responsibility for any consequences being handed back to the ancestor and different intention set, and energetic shift takes place and a change of perspective can allow changes and improvements in the lives of those involved.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-25156510
Memories and experiences can be passed down from previous generations/
https://markwolynn.com
Worth a read.. It didn't start with you: Mark Wolynn -Author and Director of Family Constellations Institute ,San Francisco
