17/06/2026
IF..........
Are you a big 'Iffer' ๐ค
This was posted by Tom Morrison and I thought it may resonate and help some folk....
The worst of times leave you feeling hopeless and like things are never going to changeโฆ
I donโt think that I am an overly strong person mentally, in fact, my biggest weakness is any minor inconvenience of any kind ๐๐
I panic, I worry, I get my head stuck in the future creating scenarios that will likely never happen, and yet, things have always worked out, even when things didnโt work out, there was a new path that did and Iโm glad for the lessonsโฆ
Iโm asked what kept me going when I was in my period of chronic pain and for giving up on everything, my main drivers were my family that was just beginning, and wanting to be able to be there for them as a pillar of strength and not a burden but ultimately what got me to where I am now was just not stoppingโฆ
I stayed in the game, even on the hardest of days, I did what I could, some days sucked more than others and some days were slightly better suck but still sucked
My vision was that if I kept trying, I was bound to happen on the things that would help at some point, right?
And things did get better, far better than I imagined possible, especially at the time.
I speak now about this stuff as a distant memory, and yet over 10 years ago I never would have believed there was a way out of the pain I was in.
I am a big โifferโ
What IF it gets worse!
What IF it stays this way forever!
What IF Iโm wrong
And I canโt stop being an โifferโ Iโve foundโฆ
But I have found that IF I add more IFโs, it helps a lot
What IF it does get better?
What IF Iโm one more thing away from what helps?
What IF Iโm the first person in the world to overcome something impossible? Thereโs been lots of firsts to do alot of things havenโt there??
So if youโre an โifferโ like me, add some positive IFโs to your repertoire, I find it helps a lot, and makes me giggle at my illogical worrying IFโs