28/05/2026
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Do you ever feel like this?
You wake up and there’s just nothing in you. The day hasn’t started and you’re already empty.
You pick up your phone without knowing why. You scroll and scroll and you’re not even looking at anything. You put it down. You pick it back up.
You sit there knowing there’s something you have to do, and you cannot make yourself do it. Not won’t. Can’t. Your body just will not move toward it.
And underneath all of that flatness, there’s a low buzzing of anxiety that never quite switches off.
Do you recognise this in yourself?
This is functional freeze. And here’s why it feels like that.
When your system senses threat, it reaches for fight or flight first. That’s your sympathetic energy, the gas. It’s mobilising, getting you ready to act. But if some part of you has learned that acting isn’t safe, or won’t work, or never did, the dorsal brake comes down on top of it.
So the gas is still pressed. That’s the buzzing anxiety you feel underneath. The energy is still there. It just has nowhere to go. And the brake holds it all in place. That’s the heaviness, the emptiness, the not being able to move.
This usually isn’t built from one big moment. It’s built from years of small ones. Times you needed to respond and couldn’t. Times speaking up wasn’t safe, so staying small was. Times your body tried to protect you by going quiet and still, and it worked, so it kept doing it.
Your nervous system is not broken. It is doing exactly what it learned to do. It found a way to keep you upright and functioning while carrying a stress response it was never given the chance to complete.
That’s the part that matters. The energy is still in there, unfinished. Which means it can move.
You don’t fix freeze by pushing harder. You meet your body where it is and you give that held energy somewhere to go, slowly and gently, a little at a time.
That’s what these tools are for.
With love always,
Sarah xx