JOMO Healing

19/06/2026

The fear had never really been about resigning.

It was about letting go of the life I’d built.

For years, I’d gone round and round in my own head.

What if I regret it?

What if I fail?

What if I’m making a mistake?

I tried to reason with myself.

To be sensible.

To stay grateful.

To stop questioning it.

But then one day, something changed.

I could feel it in every part of me.

This was the moment.

This was it.

Not because I suddenly had a perfect plan.

I didn’t.

But because for the first time, staying felt harder than leaving.

The noise that had followed me for years disappeared.

No fear.

No resistance.

No excuses.

No more negotiating with myself.

Just silence.

And in that silence came something I hadn’t felt for a very long time.

Clarity.

The day I resigned, every fear went silent.

Not quieter.

Gone.

And the moment I finally hit send, it felt like I was stepping outside of the story I’d been living for years.

Into a life that felt freer.

Lighter.

More me than ever before.

17/06/2026

You know that feeling when your child is exhausted...
But they can't settle.

They're tired, emotional, overwhelmed, and you can see they need rest, but they just can't seem to get there.

And if we're honest...

You're probably exhausted too.

On Saturday 27th June, I’m holding a Sound Healing session for neurodivergent children and their parent in Rayleigh.

You lie down together.
Nothing is expected of either of you.

No talking.
No performing.
No pressure to join in.

Just an hour to rest side by side while the sounds create a calm, predictable environment for the body to respond to.

Sometimes children don't need another strategy.

They just need space.

📅 Saturday 27th June
📍 Christ Church Hall, Rayleigh
⏰ Doors open 10:45am | Starts 11am
💷 £22 (1 adult + 1 child)
🎟️ https://buytickets.at/jomohealing/2225372

If you're wondering whether it would be suitable for your child, send me a message and I'm happy to chat 💛

Sound Healing Session for Neurodivergent Children – Christ Church - United Reformed Church, Sat 27 Jun 2026 - A calm, shared Sound Healing session for neurodivergent children and their parents This is a gentle Sound Healing session created for neurodivergent children and the parent or caregiver wh...

17/06/2026

Last night left me feeling incredibly grateful.

But if I’m honest, it also reminded me of something I don’t talk about very often.

No matter how many sessions I hold, there are still moments where I question myself.

Moments where I wonder if I’m doing enough.

If I’m holding the space well enough.

If what I’m offering is really making the difference I hope it is.

I think when you care deeply about something, those thoughts never completely disappear.

Then nights like last night happen.

People arrive carrying the weight of their week, and by the end of the evening something has shifted.

The messages arrive.

The feedback comes in.

The tears, the smiles, the relief.

And I’m reminded that this work isn’t about being perfect.

It’s about showing up with an open heart and trusting what unfolds.

I feel deeply humbled, incredibly privileged, and so grateful that so many of you continue to trust me with these moments.

On the days when I doubt myself, you remind me why I started. 💛

13/06/2026

I used to think my biggest fear was failure.

It wasn’t.

My biggest fear was getting to the end of my life and realising I’d spent most of it waiting.

Waiting for Friday.

Waiting for the next holiday.

Waiting until I had more money.

More confidence.

More certainty.

Waiting for some future version of life where I could finally relax and be myself.

The frightening part wasn’t that I might fail.

The frightening part was that I might succeed at a life I didn’t actually want.

That I might keep ticking the boxes.

Keep being sensible.

Keep doing what I was supposed to do.

And one day look up and realise my whole life had passed by while I was busy preparing to live it.

That thought terrified me more than any risk I’ve ever taken.

Maybe that’s why leaving wasn’t the scary part.

Staying was.

12/06/2026

For a long time I genuinely believed there was something wrong with me.

Everyone else seemed able to settle.

To accept things.

To build a life that looked sensible and get on with it.

Meanwhile, I kept changing direction.

Different jobs.

Different ideas.

Different versions of myself.

I thought I was the problem.

That I wasn’t grateful enough.

Committed enough.

Content enough.

But eventually I realised something.

The feeling wasn’t following me because I was broken.

The feeling was following me because I was trying to force myself into a life that never fit.

Maybe you’ve felt that too.

Not broken.

Just somewhere you no longer belong.

11/06/2026

For years I thought I was scared of failing.

Failing publicly.

Getting it wrong.

Leaving security behind.

But when I really looked underneath all of that, the truth was something else.

I was scared of waking up one day and realising I’d spent my whole life waiting.

Waiting for Friday.

Waiting for annual leave.

Waiting for retirement.

Waiting for life to finally begin.

That Thursday morning, staring out of an office window, I realised something:

The risk wasn’t leaving.

The risk was staying.

Have you ever had a moment where something inside you just knew?

09/06/2026

If this is success, why am I so unhappy?

That was the question I couldn’t shake.

From the outside, my life looked fine.

I had a good job.

A salary.

A pension.

Security.

All the things I was told I should want.

But every day I sat at that desk, staring out at the grey industrial buildings outside my office window, I felt it.

A quiet voice asking:

Surely this isn’t it?

I wasn’t unhappy because the job was awful.

I was unhappy because I was spending most of my life building something that wasn’t mine.

Living for Friday.

Waiting for annual leave.

Counting down the years until retirement when I could finally have time to be myself.

Then one Thursday morning something shifted.

The fear disappeared.

The doubts went quiet.

And for the first time, the answer felt louder than the questions.

So I typed my resignation letter.

Hit send.

And felt freer than I had in years.

Leaving didn’t solve everything.

Building a business is hard.

Some days I still wonder if I’m getting it right.

But I’ve never once regretted choosing a life that feels like mine.

06/06/2026

The world will still be there tomorrow.

The emails.
The jobs.
The responsibilities.
The noise.

For one hour, let someone else hold the space.

📍 Rayleigh
📅 Tuesday 16th June
🚪 Doors 7:30pm | Starts 7:45pm

Booking link in bio.

03/06/2026

Nobody talks about the grief of becoming the person everyone relies on.

The one who always copes.

The one who always figures it out.

The one who holds things together when everything around them feels uncertain.

People often talk about the weight of difficult circumstances.

Less often about the weight of always being the strong one.

Because somewhere along the way, strength can quietly become expectation.

And expectation can become responsibility.

And responsibility can become something so familiar that you stop noticing how heavy it has become.

Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is admit you’re tired.

Not because you’re weak.

Because you’re human. 🤍

03/06/2026

Nobody is coming to save you.

Not your partner.
Not your boss.
Not your children.

At some point, you have to choose to save yourself.

Most people never do.

They become experts at ignoring what they need.

Focusing on everything else instead.

Until they don't even feel what they need anymore.

That's why I hold these sessions.

Not to fix you.
Not to heal you.

But to give you an hour where nothing is expected of you.

An hour to breathe.
An hour to listen.
An hour to remember yourself.

✨ Sound Healing
📅 Tuesday 16th June
📍 Christ Church, Rayleigh
🕢 Doors 7:30pm | Starts 7:45pm
🎟 £18 - book here: tickettailor.com/events/jomohealing/2155677

Sound Bath - Achieving Alchemy with Julie – Christ Church - United Reformed Church, Tue 16 Jun 2026 - Sound Bath - Achieving Alchemy with Julie Unlock a world of deep relaxation and inner harmony with JOMO Healing’s exclusive Sound Healing session, guided by the talented Julie.  No prior exp.....