16/06/2026
Why Your State Shapes Everything😮
Why is it the best ideas happen in the shower?
You cry uncontrollably for weeks when your cat dies…
but when you lose someone dear,
you make a list of things to get done and tick them off one by one.
Why do the best opportunities show up when you’re rested and feeling thankful?
And why, when something goes wrong and you talk about it non-stop,
does a whole domino trail of “you’ll never believe what happened to me now” follow?😮
Because of your state.
The state you’re in shapes what you notice, how you respond, and what’s available to you.
We can’t always choose our first reaction.
But we can learn ways to influence our state more often.
I lived in anger, resentment and depression for most of my young adult life.
✨ When we’re calmer, more present and more connected to ourselves, we’re far more likely to notice joy, opportunities and possibilities that were there all along.
Yes, curve balls happen to all of us but when we get better at feeling it all, allowing more joy and calm in, we can deal with them better.
Because your capacity to feel all your emotions is your capacity for joy.
Truth.
That’s what The Joy Academy Membership is all about.
It’s for you if you are overcoming illness, burnout, or big life transitions and chapters in your life.
It’s for you if you’re ready to drop the mask, reset your nervous system, and step into life in a lighter, brighter way and feel more you again.
It’s not about fixing you!
You aren’t broken and neither was I.
It’s about creating safe, creative spaces where you can play, connect, laugh, learn neuroscience-backed tools and feel inspired enough, with a community that gets you, to actually use them to have better days.
It’s about allowing all the wellness in.
✨ There is another way to live and lead and joy is a powerful catalyst for it.
Let’s create joy for change together! I’d love to hear from you.
P.S. Your first week in The Joy Academy is free. DM me for the Zoom link. We are meeting at 7pm BST this Thursday.
📩 Email: [email protected]
📞 Message: +44 7713 033096
www.joyworks.co.uk
Because it’s not what you do. It’s the state you’re in when you do it that changes everything.
P.S. And PLEASE let’s let ourselves off the hook when big things happen to us. The cruelty of doing that to ourselves when we are doing it tough.
We would never do that to a friend. Right? 🤗🤗