Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy

Dr Jo Gee Psychotherapy Psychiatry and psychotherapy ๐ŸŒฑSurrey clinic ๐ŸŒฑ Worldwide DBT programme ๐ŸŒฑ Personality disorders

We know we shouldnโ€™t, but we all do it anyway.Whether itโ€™s other peopleโ€™s careers, relationships, homes, appearances, ca...
04/09/2026

We know we shouldnโ€™t, but we all do it anyway.

Whether itโ€™s other peopleโ€™s careers, relationships, homes, appearances, cars, tech, achievementsโ€ฆ We all use them as reference points for how well we think ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆโ€™๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ doing ourselves.

Thatโ€™s not necessarily a bad thing. Comparison can actually motivate us sometimes or help us understand what we want. But when it becomes a constant obsession plaguing our minds, we start judging our entire lives against small glimpses of somebody elseโ€™s.

Social media obviously makes this a lot harder. As we scroll through our feed, we canโ€™t help comparing our ordinary, boring, complicated lives with special moments others have carefully curated to share online.

If these sorts of comparisons often leave you feeling inadequate, ask yourself whose standards youโ€™re measuring yourself against.

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ?

Focus on your own values, priorities and goals before wasting time measuring your life against someone elseโ€™s.

Looking for in-person EMDR therapy in Guildford?Weโ€™re pleased to now offer ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž-๐ญ๐จ-๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐„๐Œ๐ƒ๐‘ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ at our Guildfo...
02/09/2026

Looking for in-person EMDR therapy in Guildford?

Weโ€™re pleased to now offer ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž-๐ญ๐จ-๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐„๐Œ๐ƒ๐‘ ๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ at our Guildford clinic, giving another option for people looking for specialist support for trauma and PTSD.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š-๐Ÿ๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐š๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐œ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ and reduces the impact they have in the present.

While we already offer a range of trauma-focused support, our new in-person sessions mean you can now access EMDR face-to-face in a safe, supportive therapeutic environment.

If youโ€™re interested in EMDR or would like to book an appointment, get in touch with our team today!

Burnout isnโ€™t always what you might expectโ€ฆMany people with burnout can still cope with their everyday life. They go to ...
31/08/2026

Burnout isnโ€™t always what you might expectโ€ฆ

Many people with burnout can still cope with their everyday life. They go to work, reply to messages, get things doneโ€ฆ but underneath it all, they feel ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐ญ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ž๐.

Emotional burnout happens when you deal with stress or pressure for a prolonged period without a chance to properly recover. It makes you feel exhausted, irritable, detached from things you usually care about, and easily overwhelmed by everyday demands.

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž, ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ค๐ž๐ž๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ.

If youโ€™re constantly running on empty, pay attention to what your mind and body are telling you. Let yourself recover by reducing pressure wherever possible, setting a few boundaries, and seeking support, whether from a friend or trained therapist.

Message us today to see how we can help you recover from burnout!

The back-to-school transition can be just as hard for parents as it is for kids!After a month or two of different routin...
29/08/2026

The back-to-school transition can be just as hard for parents as it is for kids!

After a month or two of different routines, later mornings, holidays and fun days out, September can be a big adjustment for the whole family.

There are uniforms to get together, earlier starts to get used to again, work arrangements to manageโ€ฆ all while supporting children who have their own worries about returning to school.

๐ˆ๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐š ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ซ๐ก๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ฆ ๐š๐ ๐š๐ข๐ง.

There are some things you can do to help ease everyone into the new routine: introduce routines gradually; get organised where you can; and leave some breathing room for those first few weeks โ€“ you donโ€™t have to get everything running perfectly from day one!

Donโ€™t stress about being stressed. Itโ€™s a normal part of life! And it doesnโ€™t necessarily mean anything is wrong at allโ€ฆ...
27/08/2026

Donโ€™t stress about being stressed. Itโ€™s a normal part of life! And it doesnโ€™t necessarily mean anything is wrong at allโ€ฆ

But sometimes stress sticks around.

You might find yourself constantly thinking about everything that worries you, struggling to get to sleep, becoming more irritable than usual, or avoiding things and people that usually make you happy.

When stress sticks around for too long, even everyday responsibilities can start to feel impossible to manage.

Thereโ€™s no specific moment where stress suddenly becomes โ€œserious enoughโ€ to talk about. So if you notice that itโ€™s persistent, affects your everyday life or find it increasingly difficult to cope, itโ€™s worth paying attention to those feelings and seeking help.

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฐ๐š๐ข๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ€™๐ฏ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐›๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ฌ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ. Talking to someone earlier can help you understand the root causes of your stress and find healthier ways of managing it. Contact us today to see how we can help!

You might have heard about Channel 4โ€™s recent controversial documentary โ€˜The Great ADHD Myth?โ€™. Itโ€™s understandably spar...
25/08/2026

You might have heard about Channel 4โ€™s recent controversial documentary โ€˜The Great ADHD Myth?โ€™. Itโ€™s understandably sparked a lot of conversation about ADHD, particularly its diagnosis and medication, with ADHD UK already filing a complaint.

But why?

Itโ€™s absolutely fair to have honest conversations about ADHD in todayโ€™s climate. Why are diagnoses increasing? Are all assessments thorough enough? Is medication always appropriate? Are people getting the right support after diagnosis?

๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ช๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ค๐ฌ ๐š๐๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฆ๐š ๐š๐ฅ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐๐ฒ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ž๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ ๐›๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ญ.

Despite its claims, the documentary is one-sided, unbalanced, and displays very little genuine science. So here are a few things to keep in mind if you ever watch it:

1. ADHD is ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต a myth. Itโ€™s a recognised neurodevelopmental disorder diagnosed after a comprehensive clinical assessment that considers someoneโ€™s symptoms, history and wider circumstances.

2. Treatment should be just as individual as the assessment. Treatment isnโ€™t always about medication. Depending on the person, it can also involve lifestyle changes, therapy, coaching, and very often a combination of different approaches.

๐‡๐š๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐ž๐›๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐€๐ƒ๐‡๐ƒ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž, ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐›๐ž ๐’ƒ๐’‚๐’๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†๐’….

They shouldnโ€™t cast doubt on widely accepted scientific evidence, make unfair assumptions, and disparage the genuine struggles experienced by those with ADHD.

If this documentary left you concerned about your diagnosis, experiences, assessment or medication, please get in touch with us or speak to a qualified healthcare professional.

Be honest โ€“ are you more understanding with other people than you are yourself?Think how youโ€™d respond if someone you ca...
23/08/2026

Be honest โ€“ are you more understanding with other people than you are yourself?

Think how youโ€™d respond if someone you cared about made a mistake or simply had a bad day. Chances are you wouldnโ€™t speak to them the same way you sometimes speak to yourself.

Self-compassion means learning to offer yourself some of that same patience and understanding.

So move on from that mistake without spending the rest of the day criticising yourself. Recognise when you've reached your limits. Allow yourself to ask for help.

It might take a bit of practice (especially if self-criticism has become your default response), but changing how you respond to yourself when things get tough can have a huge impact on your emotional wellbeing.

Relationships are always difficult to navigate when emotions run high.You might struggle to say what you need, avoid dif...
21/08/2026

Relationships are always difficult to navigate when emotions run high.

You might struggle to say what you need, avoid difficult conversations altogether, agree to things you don't really want, or react in ways you later regret.

Thatโ€™s something DBT can help with.

One of the four core areas of DBT is Interpersonal Effectiveness. This teaches skills to communicate more clearly, set boundaries, manage conflict and advocate for what you need, all while considering both the relationship and your own self-respect.

Like all DBT skills, they're practical tools you can practise and apply to real situations, helping you approach relationships with greater confidence and awareness.

Get in touch with us to see how DBT can help you!

Youโ€™ve probably told someone once that they could ask for your help if they needed itโ€ฆ but how much do you actually foll...
19/08/2026

Youโ€™ve probably told someone once that they could ask for your help if they needed itโ€ฆ but how much do you actually follow that advice yourself?

People avoid asking for help for several reasons: they worry that others have it worse; they feel embarrassed; or they convince themselves that they should be able to cope on their own.

Sometimes, you just might not know how to put your difficulties into words.

The truth is you donโ€™t need to have things figured out before asking for support. Even saying something as simple as โ€œIโ€™m struggling and Iโ€™m not sure what to doโ€ can be enough to start a conversation.

If your mental health is starting to affect your everyday life, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can be an important first step towards understanding what youโ€™re going through.

Have you ever sat down to relax, only to spend the whole time thinking about everything you ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ be doing instead?That...
17/08/2026

Have you ever sat down to relax, only to spend the whole time thinking about everything you ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ be doing instead?

Thatโ€™s because for a lot of us productivity has become closely tied to our sense of achievement and even self-worth. Think about how finishing that to-do list is always satisfyingโ€ฆ but a lazy afternoon leaves us feeling a little guilty.

Comparing yourself to others doesnโ€™t help either. With social media, weโ€™re constantly exposed to everyone elseโ€™s achievements, careers, social lives and apparently endless productivity.

Itโ€™s that sort of pressure that makes it so difficult for us to let ourselves have a rest โ€“ and even harder to enjoy one when we finally do!

If guilt usually follows you into your downtime, try asking yourself ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜บ being productive feels so importantโ€ฆ

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