04/09/2026
We know we shouldnโt, but we all do it anyway.
Whether itโs other peopleโs careers, relationships, homes, appearances, cars, tech, achievementsโฆ We all use them as reference points for how well we think ๐ธ๐ฆโ๐ณ๐ฆ doing ourselves.
Thatโs not necessarily a bad thing. Comparison can actually motivate us sometimes or help us understand what we want. But when it becomes a constant obsession plaguing our minds, we start judging our entire lives against small glimpses of somebody elseโs.
Social media obviously makes this a lot harder. As we scroll through our feed, we canโt help comparing our ordinary, boring, complicated lives with special moments others have carefully curated to share online.
If these sorts of comparisons often leave you feeling inadequate, ask yourself whose standards youโre measuring yourself against.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ?
Focus on your own values, priorities and goals before wasting time measuring your life against someone elseโs.