13/08/2026
Isn’t it interesting how going on holiday can be both exciting AND anxiety-provoking?
There’s the flight, the queues, the pressure of getting there on time, security, packing, passports, making sure you haven’t forgotten anything…
Then you arrive and there’s the heat, mosquitoes, sunburn, unfamiliar food and water, different routines — and perhaps the pressure to have an amazing time.
You're in an unfamiliar place, a different bed (and does the hotel look as good in real life?)
And if you’re travelling with other people, you’re suddenly spending much more time together than you normally do.
And for those living with chronic pain or other symptoms, there can be another layer of anxiety:
What if I’m in pain on holiday? What if my symptoms stop me enjoying myself?
Sometimes we can put so much pressure on ourselves to be symptom-free that the holiday itself becomes something to fear.
Because it’s completely normal to feel some anxiety about going away.
You don’t have to make those feelings disappear.
Notice them. Allow them. Be compassionate with yourself.
If symptoms show up, you don’t have to panic or see them as a sign that something is wrong. You can remind yourself: I’m okay. I’m doing my best. I can take care of myself.
Think about what will bring you comfort. I take my own pillow and a lavender spray so my bed feels more familiar. As an introvert, I need time alone, so I love getting up early to take a walk by the beach by myself.
And remember, a holiday doesn't need to be perfect to be enjoyed. 💛
What do you find stressful about holidays?
.. And if you have anxiety or other travel related fears, reach out for help. I just had a wonderful session today with a client who came to see me about her fear of flying. She’s now exited and looking forward to her trip after just 3 sessions, plus is confident if any anxiety appears, she has the tools to cope.
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