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Multi Award Winning Soul Midwife, Funeral Celebrant, CPD accredited death educator, and author - offering love and support before, during & after death ❤️

💫 Supporting the Dying
💫 Honouring the Dead
💫 Educating the Living

Every single country/culture/faith has its own way of honouring, acknowledging, and celebrating death. Here are just a f...
08/09/2026

Every single country/culture/faith has its own way of honouring, acknowledging, and celebrating death. Here are just a few really interesting and unique examples:

🕊️ Sky Burials, Tibet – Instead of burial or cremation, the body is offered back to nature, left for vultures to consume. It’s seen as the ultimate act of generosity and impermanence.

🎺 Jazz Funerals, New Orleans – A vibrant parade with music that begins solemnly but shifts into joyous celebration, honouring life with rhythm, song, and dance.

🌸 Obon Festival, Japan – Families light lanterns to guide the spirits of their ancestors home, with food offerings and temple ceremonies to honour their presence.

💀 Día de los Mu***os, Mexico – A colourful celebration where families build altars, decorate with marigolds, and share food and memories to keep loved ones close.

🔥 Torajan Funerals, Indonesia – In Toraja culture, funerals are enormous community events. Sometimes the body is kept at home for months (or years) until the family can afford a large, ceremonial farewell.

🌿 Natural Burials, UK & Growing Worldwide – Increasingly, people are choosing eco-conscious funerals: woodland burials, wicker coffins, and ceremonies that return the body to the earth.

🪶 Maori Tangihanga, New Zealand – A three-day gathering where the deceased is mourned, celebrated, and farewelled with storytelling, song, and shared food, surrounded by family and community.

✨ What these rituals show us is that there is no one way to say goodbye. Each culture finds its own way of weaving death into life.

I find it even more interesting that here in the UK, we are quite reserved and quiet in comparison. Honouring death and the rituals you carry out, can be anything you want them to be ❤️

07/09/2026

Just a little personal shout-out to some of my celebrant pals…

Back in March, at the Independent Celebrant Retreat, my lovely celebrant friends knew I had a wedding coming up (which is now VERY soon!) and decided to create a little moment for me.

I wasn’t expecting it at all. A mini hen do, lots of laughter, lots of cheering and a room full of people celebrating with me (complete with a homemade sash and a lot of voile - not menopause friendly btw 😂) Watching this video back has reminded me just how bloody grateful I am for them.

My world and my work can sometimes be heavy, emotional and challenging. To have friendships with people who understand that world, but who are also there to celebrate the joyful stuff with you, means more than I can say.

So a huge thank you to Lisa and the Independent Celebrant Retreat, and her wonderful co-conspirators for making it happen – alongside Charlotte, who was speaking at the retreat and also had her own wedding approaching, so we got to share the laughter and the outfits 😂❤️

And to all my celebrant pals who were there, there are far too many of you to tag, thank you, you know who you are.

I’ve always believed that as a celebrant, it doesn’t matter who you trained with, what ceremonies you deliver, or what badge you wear.

We are truly better when we support each other, especially as women.

Collaboration over competition. Every. Single. Time.

And who doesn’t need a room full of people cheering us on every now and again ❤️

🎙️ NEW EPISODE — DYING FOR A CUPPA® THE PODCAST OUT NOW ☕️Some people just radiate light and Taru Devani is one of them....
07/09/2026

🎙️ NEW EPISODE — DYING FOR A CUPPA® THE PODCAST OUT NOW ☕️

Some people just radiate light and Taru Devani is one of them.

Actor. Singer. Storyteller. A woman with an extraordinary life behind her and so much hope and wisdom to share.

You may recognise Taru from television and film, including EastEnders here in the UK, but I first had the absolute privilege of meeting her when I supported and consulted on the production of ‘CARE’ at the Young Vic in London.

Taru played Aditi, a woman with dementia approaching the end of her life.

In this beautiful conversation, we talk about what it was like to portray dying on stage, but we also travel much further into Taru’s own story.

From growing up in Uganda and spending time in Nairobi, to life in the UK. Her Hindu heritage. Faith, spirituality and what she believes about death. Her career across theatre, television, film and music.

And, very personally, the death of her beloved husband just a few years ago and what grief and love have taught her.

There is sadness in this conversation, of course. But my overwhelming feeling after talking to Taru was hope.

She is warm, inspiring, funny and absolutely full of light.

I felt incredibly lucky to meet her through CARE, and even luckier that we stayed in touch and she agreed to share a little of her life with all of us.

☕️ Grab a cuppa. This is a really beautiful one.

🎧 Listen to the latest episode of Dying for a Cuppa® wherever you get your podcasts.

And if Taru captures your heart as much as she did mine, you can also find her on YouTube and discover more of her life, music and work

https://www.youtube.com/
https://linktr.ee/tarudevani

“She hasn’t eaten for three days. Surely we need to get something into her?”Food and drink can become one of the most di...
05/09/2026

“She hasn’t eaten for three days. Surely we need to get something into her?”

Food and drink can become one of the most difficult and emotional parts of supporting somebody who is dying.

Because feeding people is love. It’s how we connect and how we nurture those we care about.

We cook for people. We make cups of tea. We encourage them to have just one more mouthful. We worry when somebody doesn’t eat.

So when a dying person begins eating and drinking a lot less, it can feel completely wrong to simply allow it. But it is completely normal and intuitive.

A dying body is changing and its needs are changing too. We just need to learn to open up and listen to what we are being shown.

Understanding why somebody may no longer want or need food in the same way can completely change how we respond, and importantly, how we explain it to frightened families.

Eating and drinking in a dying body is an entire module within Dying for a Cuppa® – The Masterclass, because this isn’t simply about physiology.

It’s about emotion, family, love, fear and understanding what the body is telling us. It’s about learning what’s normal and how we can support people.

Sometimes knowledge doesn’t change what is happening.

But it can make what is happening feel far less frightening and help us be more present ❤️

https://www.katiecsoulmidwife.com/upcomingtraining

Best part of 3 hours + non stop talking + 54 topics covered + coffee + cake = a perfect morning! The glorious (and hilar...
04/09/2026

Best part of 3 hours + non stop talking + 54 topics covered + coffee + cake = a perfect morning! The glorious (and hilarious) Evie King, author of 2 brilliant books (Ashes to Admin & Get Ahead of Being Dead) and I had such a great time togther today, we barely stopped for breath. That’s when you know you’ve found your people, which is such an important thing to find in this death/dying/funeral world ❤️ Evie King

03/09/2026

‘Everything happens for a reason’ and child loss. 2 very different perspectives shared with me recently and both make you think, neither is right or wrong. Grief is so personal and unique to all of us ❤️

A feeling and topic not talked about enough. We don’t just lose and miss our person who dies. There are so many other la...
02/09/2026

A feeling and topic not talked about enough. We don’t just lose and miss our person who dies. There are so many other layers to death, dying and grief ❤️

Sometimes the simplest questions open up the biggest conversations. Since releasing ‘A Gift’, some of the feedback has b...
01/09/2026

Sometimes the simplest questions open up the biggest conversations.

Since releasing ‘A Gift’, some of the feedback has been amazing and exactly what I hope for…

“What a great idea. It’s so simple, but exactly what we needed.”

“We had conversations we probably never would have had without it.”

“They didn’t write down what I thought they would – some of the answers really surprised me.”

“I loved reading the stories. There were things in there I’d never heard before.”

“It gave them somewhere to write the things they couldn’t always say out loud.”

“We only managed to go through a handful of things, but those few things became absolutely priceless.”

And that is exactly why I created ‘A Gift’.

It doesn’t need to be completed from beginning to end.

It doesn’t need to become another job on the list.

One question. One story. One wish. One conversation. It can be that simple.

Sometimes, that’s enough to leave behind something incredibly precious and means more than you will ever know.

Available now on Amazon - https://amzn.eu/d/01SSVq84 ☕️❤️

This week on Dying for a Cuppa®, it’s Kate, Kate and Katie. And when you put three women this passionate about funerals,...
31/08/2026

This week on Dying for a Cuppa®, it’s Kate, Kate and Katie. And when you put three women this passionate about funerals, celebrancy, and choice in one conversation, there really isn’t much chance of anyone else getting a word in!

I’m joined by Kate and Kate from Coffin Club and Match & Dispatch, who I’m also delighted to welcome as proud sponsors of the next few episodes of Dying for a Cuppa®.

Between the three of us, we delve into the world of funerals, farewells and celebrancy, the importance of giving people genuine choice and autonomy, the magnitude and responsibility of the work we do with families, and why well-trained, educated and supported celebrants matter so much.

Kate and Kate are multi-award-winning funeral educators who are passionate about opening up conversations around death and funerals. Through Coffin Club and Match & Dispatch, they’re helping both the public and professionals understand that funerals can, and should, reflect the people at the heart of them.

It’s open, passionate and, unsurprisingly, there’s plenty to say.

And listen right to the end because we might just drop a little announcement of our own… 👀

Grab a cuppa and join the three Kates

https://matchanddispatch.com/

Huge thanks to Match & Dispatch for supporting this episode of Dying for a Cuppa® The Podcast ☕️❤️

Match and Dispatch Celebrant Training funerals + inspiration Kate and Kate Celebrants

“What do I actually say?”It’s probably one of the most common things I hear when we talk about death and dying.What do I...
30/08/2026

“What do I actually say?”

It’s probably one of the most common things I hear when we talk about death and dying.

What do I say when somebody tells me they’re frightened?

What do I say when somebody asks me if they’re dying?

What do I say when a family member asks how long they have left?

What do I say when there simply aren’t any words that are going to make this better?

We spend so much time worrying what to do around death and dying, and even less time helping people feel confident about what to say.

And actually, sometimes the answer isn’t about finding the perfect words at all.

It’s about learning how to listen. How to sit with discomfort. How to stop trying to fix something that cannot be fixed. And how to have honest, human conversations when they matter most.

Communication is one of the four areas we explore in Dying for a Cuppa® – The Masterclass.

Because confidence around death doesn’t come from having a script.

It comes from understanding that sometimes simply being there, listening and allowing the conversation to happen is enough.

Last Masterclass dates and spaces available for 2026, 2027 dates coming very soon or contact me directly about having your own in house training ☕️❤️

https://www.katiecsoulmidwife.com/upcomingtraining

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