18/06/2026
One thing I wish someone had told me prior to becoming a Mother…
Was that it is quite common to question your decision to become a Mother.
That if motherhood isn’t what you expected, you are not failing.
Motherhood is often sold as one of the happiest times of our lives.
But alongside love, there is also:
💔 Grief for the life you had before
💔 Loss of identity
💔 Overwhelm
💔 Guilt
💔 Rage
💔 Loneliness
💔 A feeling that you’ve somehow lost yourself
Often the hardest part isn’t actually caring for your child.
Its the unspoken thoughts, feelings, and experiences that come alongside Motherhood.
If Motherhood feels different to what you expected, I hope this serves as a reminder that there is support available and that your feelings are valid.
❤️ Which part of motherhood caught you most by surprise?
Laura x
✨ Throwback to standing on stage at Womanifest last summer