02/09/2026
Have you noticed: when your body is doing its job, you barely notice it? You don’t give a second thought to your knees when you get out of a chair, your balance stepping off a kerb, your back when making the bed or whether you’ll have enough energy to work all day and still make dinner with friends.
You just get on with your life.
It’s only when something begins to hurt, feel stiff or become harder that our body suddenly demands attention. Like a dripping tap at 3am - persistent, irritating and increasingly hard to ignore.
And then, without ever really deciding to, we start adapting around it. We ‘decide’ we don’t need to get down on the floor, we’re not in the mood to climb the hill, we’ll take the lift because it’s quicker… and so it goes on. Until these small things begin to limit our choices and change the life available to us.
I asked people to fill in a short questionnaire before my next Live Lounge because I wanted to understand what’s really going on for them. One thing keeps coming up: how many women have started avoiding things they used to do without giving them a second thought.
Not big things. Just everyday things that seem too insignificant to mention.
Most people start with how to get fit. I start at the other end: what do you want to be fit for? What do you want your body to keep letting you do without having to think about it?
There are several more decades ahead of us 🤞. Do you want to spend them putting up with things that ni**le, irritate and limit everyday life? Or focus on building strength, balance, mobility and resilience so your body can get back into the background while you get on with living?
The life you want in 10 or 20 years is being shaped by what you build now. If you know what you want those years to contain, start preparing for them - and don’t rely on crossed fingers, a cupboard full of supplements and a weekly Pilates class.
There’s more to this than I can fit into an Instagram post, so this is what we’re getting into at my next Live Lounge.
In the meantime, is there something you’ve noticed getting a little harder lately - even if it seems too small to make a fuss about?