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22/05/2026

In any SEND reforms, maintain the legal right to education other than in school for children & young people whose needs mean no school or college placement is appropriate. Retain the SEND Tribunal’s power to order EOTISC and specify the provision required for a child’s individually assessed need...

22/05/2026

People keep asking the same question about the Department for Education.

Was it intentional?
Or are they just that incompetent?

And honestly, I have spent months trying to answer that question for myself.

Especially through the SEND consultation.
Watching the shifts.
Watching local authorities behave differently.
Reading statements.
Reading reactions.
Trying to decode what sits underneath all of it.

Because I think when you are neurodivergent, you do not just skim over these things and move on.

You process them.
Deeply.

You pattern-recognise.
You loop.
You try to make the contradictions make sense.

And I think part of me believed that if I could just finally work out the motive, I would know what to do with the exhaustion this has all created.

But I keep circling back to the same point.

For the nervous system, the motive almost stops mattering once trust has gone.

Intentional means this system is not safe to depend on.

Incompetent means this system is not safe to depend on.

The body reacts to both.

And I think that is the bit I keep seeing everywhere right now.

People already running on empty spending hours trying to decode a system that increasingly does not seem able to understand, regulate or safely support the people it exists to serve.

The outrage is real.
But it is also consuming enormous amounts of energy.

I think part of what has unsettled so many people recently is not just the SEND consultation itself.

It is what the response to the outrage revealed.

Because when families are describing exhaustion, fear, instability and nervous system overload… and that response gets interpreted primarily as “snobbery”, unpleasantness or PR fallout, it tells us something important.

There is a profound level of misattunement here.

Families are communicating lived distress and systemic overwhelm.

Institutions appear to be interpreting those responses through an entirely different frame.

And I think that is why so many people end up trapped in loops trying to explain themselves more clearly, more rationally, more calmly… hoping that if they can just communicate it correctly enough, they will finally be understood.

But increasingly, I think many people are realising this may not simply be a communication issue.

You cannot create relational safety with communities you fundamentally do not understand.

And I think our nervous systems already know that.

So maybe the energy goes somewhere else now.

Into protecting our nervous systems.
Into supporting each other.
Into building differently.
Into finding another way forward.

17/05/2026

Living with FND is changing the way I understand life, stress, health, and what it means to survive in a world that often asks humans to override themselves.

It’s changing the way I work.
The way I rest.
The way I move through the world.
The way I understand my nervous system.
The way I understand myself.

For a long time, I kept this part of my life private.

Partly because I needed to process it.
The grief.
The shame.
The guilt.
The reality of how much it has changed my life.

This is one of the first times I’ve chosen to make that reality visible.

Because humans are far more complex than many systems currently allow for.

14/05/2026

04/05/2026

A quiet moment from the VIP tent at Ilkley Carnival today.

My company is one of the local sponsors this year.

A small sponsorship, but still something I’m proud of.

Huge thanks to the organisers and volunteers who make events like this happen for the community.

VIP access sounds quite glamorous.

In reality, I’m sitting quietly by myself for a few minutes, taking a moment to regulate.

Because busy, loud community events are not naturally my easiest environment.

The noise.
The movement.
The small talk.
The social expectations.
The constant sensory input.

And today, I’m also quite spaced out from MCAS treatment I started two weeks ago.

So my capacity is not where it usually is.

But I’m here.

And I still care deeply about being part of the community.

I think this is something we often misunderstand about participation.

Needing space does not mean someone does not want to belong.

Stepping away does not mean someone is antisocial.

Finding quiet does not mean someone is disengaged.

Looking fine does not mean someone is finding it easy.

Sometimes participation looks like being there, but with pauses.

Sometimes community connection needs regulation built into it.

Sometimes belonging means having permission to show up in a way that fits your nervous system and your body that day.

This is what I mean by whole-person thinking.

Participation is not just attendance.

It is access.

It is capacity.

It is environment.

It is belonging without self-abandonment.

And I will keep saying this:

We do not need more spaces that people can only access by overriding themselves.

We need communities, workplaces, schools and systems that understand participation properly.

Whole person.

Whole picture.

04/05/2026

I hear so much disillusionment from occupational therapists.

I understand it.

We train in such a rich, whole-person profession.

We learn theory that helps us understand people through occupation, meaning, motivation, environment, function, identity, habits, roles, participation, health, culture, body, mind and context.

We learn models that are deep.
MOHO. PEO. CMOP-E. Occupational science. Psychology, anatomy and physiology. Activity analysis. Functional formulation. Developmental, sensory, cognitive, physical and psychosocial frames of reference.

And then many OTs enter practice and find themselves squeezed into roles that barely touch the depth of what they were trained to do.

Equipment. Discharge. Handwriting. ADLs. Risk paperwork. Single-pathway interventions.

None of these things are meaningless.
But they are not the whole of OT.

And when the role is narrowed, the reasoning gets narrowed too.

That is where the disillusionment starts.

Because theory alone does not make you clinically powerful.
Clinical practice does.
Complex cases do.
Reflective supervision does.
CPD that expands your thinking does.
Time to formulate does.
Seeing patterns across people, environments, nervous systems, systems, families and occupations does.

That is how OT reasoning becomes alive.
Not by memorising models.
By applying them.
By noticing what keeps repeating.
By asking better questions.
By seeing the whole person when the system is only looking at one part.
And this is where I think occupational therapy needs to reclaim itself.
Not just by asking other professions to understand us better.

But by creating the clinical spaces, frameworks and communities where OTs can actually become the experts they were trained to be.
Because the way forward is not to keep shrinking ourselves into narrow role specs.

The way forward is to deepen the reasoning.
To specialise.
To build frameworks.
To become fluent in our own professional power.
To stop waiting for fragmented systems to define the value of whole-person work.

This is part of why I'm building Diversi Valley.
Not as another space where OTs have to keep proving their professional worth.

But as a space for whole-person thinking, neurodivergent practice, clinical depth and the kind of reasoning that cannot grow inside roles that only allow one small slice of the work.

Occupational therapy should not be reduced to tasks.

It is not just about whether someone can do something.

It is about what that doing means, what it costs, what supports it, what blocks it, what capacity is available, what identity is being protected, and what participation is possible.

Systems are segmented.
People are not.

And I am not interested in shrinking OT to fit systems that do not understand it.
I am interested in building the spaces where whole-person reasoning can lead.

01/05/2026

Clinical reasoning is work.

Pattern recognition is work.

Turning complexity into language another person can use is work.

And in caring professions, this is often the part we are expected to give away.

The quick thought.

The wording.

The interpretation.

The explanation that makes the whole situation make sense.

But the thinking is the thing.

A report without reasoning is just pages.

A strategy without formulation can become another demand.

A recommendation without context can become another tick-box.

A behaviour plan without understanding can become another form of pressure.

The strategy is only as good as the reasoning behind it.

That matters deeply in complex neurodivergent practice.

Because when the reasoning is weak, everything downstream becomes unclear.

The language.

The recommendations.

The provision.

The boundaries.

The confidence.

The next step.

That is the work I am becoming much more intentional about valuing, protecting and making visible.

And that is the work I am building through Diversi Valley. Resources, reasoning tools and contained professional support for complex neurodivergent practice.

29/04/2026

I kept seeing the same pattern.

Children were presenting differently across home, school and clinic.

Parents were describing one reality.

Professionals were seeing another.

Reports were being compared as if one account had to cancel the other out.

But mismatch is information.

Different environments create different conditions.

Different conditions create different presentations.

That is why I wrote The OT Is The Tool. A clinical reasoning ebook for professionals working with neurodivergent children and families where the surface picture is not enough.

A practical guide for OT practitioners working with neurodivergent children and families. This book addresses how to make sense of variability across environments, hold multiple truths, and communicate clinical reasoning when systems want simple answers. WHAT'S INSIDE: - Why the OT (not the tool) is...

28/04/2026

Capability is not capacity.

A neurodivergent person may be able to do something under the right conditions.

That does not mean they can access that skill consistently, on demand, under pressure, in a noisy environment, after a difficult transition, with an unfamiliar adult, or while carrying sensory and emotional load.

When capability is mistaken for capacity, support is often reduced too early.

Then the person is described as inconsistent.
But inconsistency is often information.

It tells us the conditions changed.
The load changed.

The nervous system state changed.
The task is to understand what made access possible and what made it disappear.
That is where the reasoning begins.

18/04/2026

After years of managing hEDS reasonably well, histamine has been the piece that hasn’t settled.

For me, that’s looked like:

Itching, flushing, persistent skin problems
Burning tongue
Chronic hay fever
Digestive issues, reflux
Wheezing, asthma symptoms
Brain fog, fatigue, chronic pain

It all ramps up at night which is when sleep is significantly impacted.

Over time, a pattern started to emerge.

MCAS kept coming up as a potential missing layer.

Mast Cell Activation Syndrome is only just being recognised within the NHS, which tells you something about how long people have been navigating this without a framework.

I’m starting targeted treatment next week and I’m genuinely curious what shifts.

These things cluster.

hEDS, MCAS, neurodivergence they don’t sit in neat boxes. They stack. They interact.

Clinically, I’m seeing similar patterns in clients:

Sensory sensitivity
Broken sleep
Gut issues
Volatile states
Persistent skin issues
Running eyes and nose

Sometimes histamine is part of the picture and no one’s looked there yet.

I’m sharing what I’m exploring and what I’m seeing.

Watch this space.....