28/08/2026
๐ค Calming strategies what are they??
Below are some top tips on some of the calming strategies we recommend-
Self soothe box - think of this as your grab bag when struggling. Fill a box, pillowcase, pencil case, spare bag or anything that can hold your items. Add to this some items that help you soothe yourself. This could be a soduku puzzle, word search, paper and pens to doodle with, hot chocolate sachet, chocolate bar, crisps, sweets, face masks, hand cream, fidget toys, Teddy bear, affirmation cards, photos of friends/family or places, jokes and more. ๐ซ๐ฌ๐งธ๐จ๐ธ
Breathing techniques - box breathing, finger breathing, smell the pizza/cool the pizza ๐จ๐
Mindfulness - body scanning/tensing each muscle as you focus on the different areas, listening to music and naming all the instruments used, laying in the garden/park looking and listening for the sounds of nature or cloud watching ๐๐ป๐ฆ๐๐ต๐ง๐ธ๐น๐ฅ
Coping skills - the 5,4,3,2,1 method of naming 5 things you see, 4 things you hear, 3 things you can touch, 2 things you can smell or taste and 1 deep breath. Listing as many things of a subject like chocolate bars, cars, football teams, dog breeds and more. Scategories, using the alphabet to name something in a topic such as animals, shops, names ๐๐โ๐๐จ
Spending time with family of friends - connection is a big part of our lives. A simple text or phone call can often lighten our mood. Sitting with family for meals or going for a walk with pets. It doesn't have to be big to make the difference. ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ๐ซ
Self care - do something you enjoy. This could be a hobby you have or one you want to start, look at your sleep routine, diet and fluid intake is just as important to function, spending time with others or alone, creating a mini pamper session with a bubble bath or relaxing shower, face masks, moisturisers, spending time in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. Its not selfish to practice self care ๐งโโ๏ธ๐๐๐ฃ๐ณ
Being kind to yourself - Take a moment to think about you and be kind. Focus on your positives, look for affirmations that inspire you, give and take compliments, talk to yourself like you would a friend with compassion and support, treat yourself to something you have been putting off, look for the positives of the day as there is always 1 !! ๐๐๐คฉ
Create a list of all the things that help you calm. Share them with family, friends or your support network. Do them together or alone. Find what works for you. The more you practice them the easier they become ๐