06/09/2026
So, if anything, menopause and marriage both take a bit of work. šā¤ļø
Weāre stronger than we often realise, and getting older has taught me to stop trying to shrink myself, physically or otherwise.
Speak up. Ask questions. Advocate for yourself. And be prepared to change your mind when the evidence changes.
Stop the FOMO because someone on Instagram tells you theyāve āchanged their lifeā with an untested supplement they just happen to have a discount code for.
Donāt get so distracted by the small rocks that you forget the big ones. The basics might not be as exciting or marketable, but they matter.
Stop believing your body needs fixing, detoxing, ābalancingā or making smaller before you can enjoy your life.
And perhaps most importantlyā¦
Stop waiting to become a different version of yourself before you start enjoying the one you are now.
Question more.
Trust yourself more.
Take up more space.
You donāt need fixing. You need good information, choices that are right for YOU, and the confidence to make them. ā¤ļø