29/05/2026
I’ve been having one of those “how did my life change THIS much!?” moments lately
This time last year I was questioning my worth & was in the most emotionally chaotic situationship that had me feeling like a snow globe shaken up & thrown into a tornado🌪️
Situationships make you lose yourself so fast but subtly - you never know where you stand, so your nervous system is permanently a state of dysregulation. Your logic, standards & grip on reality goes awol & you ignore red flags even when they’re smacking you in the face
The jump from then to now is wild
From being rushed out the house without even a coffee…to now being with someone who makes me home-cooked vegetarian meals (even though she’s not veggie herself) just because she wants to care for me
& there’d be drama over lipstick transferring while kissing - like shock horror, makeup does what makeup does. But now my partner says she doesn’t mind being covered in my makeup because it means I’ve been loving her & also she reminds me that makeup remover exists😂
I went from being told I was too much & constantly shrinking myself… to being loved by someone who tells me I’m the perfect amount exactly as I am🥹
& the thing is, nothing changed until I chose me first. I had to walk away even when every rejection wound in me was screaming at me to stay. I had to stand on everything I preach. The healing. The self-worth work. All of it
That ending was me telling the Universe: I’m not available for the bare minimum & That I’m done abandoning myself in the name of wanting to be loved or chosen
& what came after was the kind of love I used to think was a fairytale💛
So if you’re in your situationship snow globe era, this is your reminder, real love will never require you to change to receive it
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