14/05/2026
The mask I wear to gain love, approval and validation…
It feels important for me to come on here, having explored this part of me, and share it with you. Simply to be transparent, to show you the humanness that lives within me.
I believe the woman you see on here looks like she has her s**t together - sets boundaries, honours herself deeply and calls out b*lls**t, and yes, I am all of those things.
AND, I am a woman who feels safer in rupture - with the honesty, visibility & something to work with - than in inconsistency. A woman who is yearning to be met, deeply.
Our masks aren’t fake or inauthentic. They are exaggerated versions of us, that keep us safe. They become safer to embody than the thing underneath.
This beautiful mask protects a younger part of me, and i’m so grateful she is here. Overtime, the reigns will loosen and a new mask will form.
What a wonderful life, to always have parts protecting me. To always learn about myself, and free myself from invisible chains.
The Un-Masked Ball (the workshop I did, to have these realisations) will be coming out VERY soon …. Comment or DM me ‘mask’ to be the first to find out ❤️🔥