10/06/2026
Triggers are not a sign that you’re failing—they’re a sign that something inside you needs attention.
Often, a trigger isn’t really about what’s happening in the present moment. It’s your nervous system responding to something that feels familiar from the past. A tone of voice, a look, feeling ignored, criticised, rejected, or out of control can activate old wounds without us even realising it.
The goal isn’t to eliminate every trigger.
The goal is to become aware of them.
The goal is to learn how to respond to them.
This resource is one tool to support you with the process.
I have reposted this because this resource is just that good.
Blessings,
Dr Kelly