03/09/2026
One of the things people find hardest to say out loud is.. I don’t know who I’d be without the eating disorder.
And it usually comes with a lot of shame attached.
Who am I without this. What would I even think about. How would I cope. What’s left of me underneath it.
Being frightened by those questions doesn’t mean you don’t want recovery.
It means this has been part of your life long enough that it’s tangled up with who you think you are.
Nothing gets taken away from you here.
We work out what the eating disorder has been doing for you, and build something else underneath, before anything is asked of you.
You’re allowed to want recovery and feel frightened of who you might be without it.