20/10/2026
I’ve had comments about my body that stayed in my head for years, and I’ve also spent years changing my body partly because I thought that if I looked “good enough”, I could somehow make myself less vulnerable to them.
I don’t think healing means getting to a point where nothing anybody says ever hurts. For me, it’s been about understanding why certain comments land so deeply, and not automatically handing that person the power to decide how I eat, train or feel about myself afterwards.
People can still be cruel. I just don’t want their cruelty becoming my next instruction.
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