05/08/2026
âI donât recognise myself. I used to be calm. Patient. On top of things. Now I snap at my kids, cry at nothing, and feel like Iâm watching someone else run my life.â
This symptom never makes the standard checklist, but itâs one of the most commonly reported experiences of perimenopause, and can be one of the most frighteningâŚ
A body that feels different, you can push through. A personality that feels different, a shift in how you respond to the world, is destabilising in an entirely different way.
Oestrogen is involved in serotonin, GABA and dopamine regulation, your calming and feel good brain chemicals.
As it fluctuates and declines, mood stability, emotional regulation and cognitive responses all move with it. This isnât a mental health crisis. Itâs a hormonal one, and it responds to nutrition in ways that consistently surprise my clients.
If this resonates, please share it. Too many women are sitting with this in silence, believing it says something about them as a person.
It doesnât. And it can be managed
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