08/09/2026
something huge is shifting in the way I ‘hold space’.
Speaking honestly, it is taking me by surprise.
I let myself Mother.
I let myself pour motherly love on ways of affection and connection that perhaps their own mother might not have let themselves do.
My learnings with the cervix and with my bodywork praxis have brought me to a deeper understanding of the importance of this motherly intimacy.
Like me,many women I work with were not shown how to be loving yet s*xual.
Like me, many women who work with me skipped romance and went straight for s*x when they were young - as a way of ensuring safety.
Like me, many women were mishandled in their first s*xual encounters and for some women most of their encounters.
Like me, many of the women I work with were parentalized; forced to grow up and become a woman before they’d outgrown their girlhood.
Like me, many of the women I work with had their innocence taken from them.
Like me, many of them didn’t have a mother who knew how to protect the sacred.
Like me, many of them weren’t mothered affectionately.
As I go deeper and deeper into the healing power of the cervix, I come to realise that all the female physiology aches for is to feel cherished. held. adored.
Simple.
Love.
I am coming to learn that there isn’t anything else quite as healing as this quality of Love.
I have spent years fine tuning a whole world of erotic artillery and have studied an array of different ways of de-armouring the body and the mind
only to find
this Love.
it is the point.
My religion, at this point, is such: that if every mother on the planet gave birth in ecstasy and was nourished in postpartum she would have such an or****ic intimacy with her children that every child in the world would grow up in an attuned, coherent state — that the world we live in would vibrate at this attuned, coherent frequency.
my belief is that we can reprogram this inside of the body; and it is via the cervix —
remothering under our own hands,
returning ourselves to that original ache of cherishment.
Thankyou to every woman who has let me be with you in your tenderness. it means the world. it is the world to me
I love you. thankyou x