15/08/2026
Accountability is uncomfortable
I talked in yesterday's blog about accountability.
Something I, essentially, give my members.
As I said yesterday, accountability that stops when someone stops responding isn't accountability.
If someone wants a surface level veneer of accountability, there's countless other options out there that offer that.
Real accountability is, as the blog title says, uncomfortable.
It's asking the more difficult questions.
Questioning people's reasons for doing (or not doing certain things).
Because, whilst they are rarely "untrue" they are often not the complete barriers to progress we might see them as.
Helping someone question what they can still do when "busy" (rather than, essentially, nothing) is real accountability.
Questioning whether we have to keep doing something because we've always done it (but then often regret it) is real accountability.
Getting people to consider whether going back to what they used to do (when they gained weight and became miserable whilst doing it) to save a pound or two a day really makes sense is real accountability.
Ultimately, better answers come from better questions, not the same old questions over and over again.
I'll always be polite and nice with these conversations, of course.
But I won't just smile and nod and watch someone go back down the same path they've specifically told me they don't want to go back down.
Much love,
Jon 'Hurts So Bad Productions' Hall
P.S. When you're ready for polite, friendly but real accountability rather than just endlessly telling yourself "I know what I need to do, I just need to do it", then you can comment below or send me a DM to find out more.
Yesterday's blog: "I want accountability but I don't want you to hassle me" - www.facebook.com/222067851180423_1743351247798370