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💜 My heart breaks reading stories like this. 💜Today, another report has revealed that hundreds of mothers and babies suf...
24/06/2026

💜 My heart breaks reading stories like this. 💜

Today, another report has revealed that hundreds of mothers and babies suffered harm or lost their lives due to failures in maternity care. Behind every number is a family whose lives have been changed forever.

As many of you know, I lost my beautiful daughter, Pandora, after repeatedly raising concerns about her reduced movements. I knew something wasn’t right, but like so many other parents, my concerns were not fully acted upon. The devastating consequence is something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

No parent should have to leave a hospital without their baby. No family should have to spend their days wondering if more could have been done. No mother should feel unheard when she says she knows her baby.

Reduced movements should always be taken seriously. Parents know their babies better than anyone. Listening, investigating and acting quickly can save lives.

I share my story not for sympathy, but because change is desperately needed. Pandora mattered. Every baby mentioned in these reports mattered. Every family deserves answers, accountability and safer maternity care.

In memory of Pandora, and for all the babies gone too soon, I will continue to speak out and raise awareness.

✨ If you are pregnant and worried about your baby’s movements, please trust your instincts and seek medical advice. You are never wasting anyone’s time.

For Pandora. For every baby. For every family. 💜🦋

💜🦋

🚨 JUST IN: More than 500 mothers and babies suffered potentially avoidable harm or died due to “deeply embedded systemic failures” at a “toxic” hospital trust, a review has found.

To my beautiful babies, Cruze and Pandora,Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you both. Though I never got the chanc...
18/06/2026

To my beautiful babies, Cruze and Pandora,

Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you both. Though I never got the chance to watch you grow, you will always be my children and forever a part of my heart.

Cruze, my precious boy, born sleeping in 2023, you made me a mother in a way that changed me forever. I carry your memory with me every day, and I wonder what your smile would have looked like, what your laugh would have sounded like, and who you would have become.

Pandora, my beautiful girl, born sleeping in March 2026, you were loved long before I held you and will be loved for the rest of my life. Your tiny hands, your precious face, and every dream I had for you will remain safely in my heart forever.

You may not have stayed in my arms, but you will stay in my heart for as long as I live. You are brother and sister, together always, watched over with a love that will never fade.

I miss the memories we never got to make, the birthdays we never celebrated, and the futures we never shared. But I am grateful that you are mine, and I will speak your names with pride and love.

Cruze and Pandora, you are my babies, my greatest loves, and my forever angels.

Until I hold you both again,

Love always,
Mum ❤️

A book a have received today from one my followers to ready thank you so much I will ready this over weekend 💙❤️
17/06/2026

A book a have received today from one my followers to ready thank you so much I will ready this over weekend 💙❤️

UPDATE : I am honestly blown away by the love, kindness and support our community has shown in less than 24 hours for Cr...
14/06/2026

UPDATE : I am honestly blown away by the love, kindness and support our community has shown in less than 24 hours for Cruze & Pandora’s Legacy 🤍👣

So many amazing local businesses and people have already donated prizes to help us raise money for a cold/cuddle cot that will help bereaved families spend precious extra time with their babies 💖

So far we have received donations from:

✨ Sasha – voucher for gel hands & toes
✨ Katies aesthetics – £100 voucher
✨ Instandtan NE sunbed hire – 1 week free sunbed
✨ Blooming Creationsx – flower hat box
✨ Pizza Master TEAMS– free meal deal 1
✨hairbyadele_reve – £10 voucher
✨ Joanne Surrey – 2 free breakfasts at cafe
✨ Victoria Crawford – free cut & blow dry
✨ Namaste Prosecco Microbar Seaham/sunnieside – £20 voucher
✨ The Bridle Path – meal for 2 with 2 drinks
✨Jamdani Whickham – £50 voucher & bottle of wine
✨ Zena Wilson – £40 voucher for any treatment
✨keen to kleen - free gutter clean
✨Dunston Lucky Garden- 10inch munchie box
✨Pinned By Grace - free pinup for hair
✨Clarks Heating And Plumbing — £200 cash
✨Spud and Buns- 2 free fully loaded meal deals
✨Hebe&Co-free cut & blow dry + scalp treatment
✨rose lodge - £200 voucher
✨City Vaults | Newcastle- table for 4 free entry on a Friday or Saturday event night with 8 free drink vouchers (single house sprit with mixer selected beers & wines) TABLE NEEDS TO BE PRE BOOKED
✨Jan Quinn McArdle- £50 metro Center voucher
✨Heavenly Delights-£50 voucher
✨Bakes by Alice - 2 vouchers for 12 cups cakes worth £27.00 pounds
✨-By-Mya Florence- free eyebrows of your choice
✨Isabella Crawford- £20 voucher in store
✨Mya Stans - £109 lumi-pro skin booster
✨Emma Blackburn - £30.00 voucher on all services & products
✨Jolly Drovers in Leadgate- £30.00 voucher
✨Aesthetics by Shana - £50.00 voucher in salon
✨Undeclared Beauty £20.00 voucher for salon
✨Aesthetics by Amy Rose - £100 voucher to use in salon
✨Joanne Eccles- £60.00 voucher towards a photo shoot
✨bells balloons- £25 bobo balloon 🎈
✨Seaside Travel Low Fell - £50 voucher to use in store
✨Shelby CN - balloon number stack worth £45.00 🎈
✨Premier Whickham- £100 cash 💸
✨Spice N Slice- £25.00 food voucher 🍕
✨Irvine's Cafe- afternoon tea for 2
✨Kind Hands - free one hour treatment
✨Little House Of Hairdos- £50.00 voucher for salon
✨Flower box felling - VIP Page - £40.00 voucher Yaz Dag
✨The Nine Pins - £25.00 drinks voucher
✨JLB BEAUTY- hybrid brows worth £30.00
✨Stacey-Marie Dees Lash Artist- £30.00 vouchers for any treatment
✨LashedStudio-£60 gift voucher
✨HairbyFaye - 30% off a cut & blow dry
✨Laura Sammali- voucher for free eye test and 50% off prescription glass or designer sunglasses prescription or nonprescription (selected brands only )
✨Leslies Carpets- brand new cream style carpet for a standard staircase or small room 2.7-4 & a 2-4
✨James Wood Eyecare- 2 pairs of ray-ban sunglasses brand new
✨nest dinning- tasting menu voucher for 2 worth £150
✨Bex delights- £20.00 voucher
✨Glam Bae - 25% voucher of any course online are in salon
✨Highwayman, Whickham-voucher for 2 with free bottle house wine
✨Make it Magical Entertainment- £50 voucher
✨The Head Shed2 tickets both contain 2 free hair cuts
✨Purple Pressure Washing - free front yard jet wash
✨The JollyBowman Battlehill - 2 free Sunday dinners from jack allen
✨Chanel’s glow co. - £20 voucher for wash &blow dry
✨chanels glow co - £30 voucher for hair style
✨the fun jungle - 10 free entry passes
I honestly cannot thank everyone enough. The support has gone above and beyond anything we ever imagined and it means the world to our family 🤍
✨The Owl Tree Community Nest - £20 voucher to use towards entry and food and drinks
✨Twenty Twenty- £30 gift card
✨Tan With Sam- free spray tan voucher
✨Lavish North Beauty and Aesthetics - voucher for free teeth whitening
✨dazzling ladies Leanne Cranston - 1ml lips vouchers
✨NE Wellness Massage & Head Spa- voucher for 30 minute drift away hair & play treatment
✨Blissful Bay Head Spa - free Japanese head spa
✨Chloe Ferry Aesthetics
Microneedling Session with Polynucleotides & Hyaluronic Acid
A luxury skin rejuvenation treatment designed to support skin repair, boost hydration, improve texture and enhance your natural glow. Combining microneedling with polynucleotides and hyaluronic acid, this treatment helps promote healthier, more radiant-looking skin.
✨Aesthetics Now - £50 voucher
✨FRStudios__ - £20 voucher
✨Dana’s Faces - gift voucher for a make up appointment
✨JT Aesthetics- voucher for choice of your treatment
✨ Aesthetics - voucher for any 1.1 technique
✨Nazifè Studio - voucher for free blow dry
✨Medical Skin Studio - £50 voucher
✨Uncle’s Panuzzo & Sandwiches- £100 food voucher
Lock and Quay Pub - voucher for 2 people for bottomless brunch
✨Byholliesmith- free lash lift or brow lamination
✨121 Healing Beautie’s- free treatment for in salon
✨Styled by Lois - free hair style voucher worth £25 pounds
✨Waterfront North Shields - £30 voucher to be used in store
✨Pigalo's - £30 voucher to use in North Shields store
✨Moku- £30 voucher to use in store
✨Sienna House of Beauty - gift voucher for gel nail polish
✨Beautilox - pin curl gift card for £45
✨beautilox - jumbo braids gift card £35
✨beautilox - dry trim & style gift card £45
✨beautilox - hair up gift card £45
✨ Zucchini Pasta Bar - Newcastle - gift voucher for fresh pasta master class
✨Indian Kitchen SouthMoor - £20 voucher
✨Indian kitchen southmoor - £20 voucher
✨LibbybattistaMakeup - £30 make up voucher
✨House Of All Aesthetics - £50 aesthetics voucher
✨house of all aesthetics - £50 beauty & well-being voucher
✨The Hair Angel - voucher for 2 pinups hair styles
✨Sam Fitcamp- voucher for 1 month free access to one of their fitness classes or bootcamps
✨6 free entry tickets to -
Funshack Jump 360 Inflatespace Clip n climb Newcastle
✨6 free entry tickets to - Funshack Jump 360 Inflatespace Clip n climb Newcastle
✨Starboy Fitness & Massage - voucher for1 month free boot camp
✨Costcutter Dunston - £50 in stone voucher
✨On The Lash With Lynsey - free dna salmon micro needling facial
✨Sun Tanning Co - 90 minute VIP block booking
✨Halo Hebburn - blow dry with Alisha
✨Gateshead Leisure Centre - 2 free family swims
✨Dermafinity Permanent Cosmetics • Sheila Robinson - £100 voucher
✨The Glass House Whitley bay - awaiting for confirmation
✨High Hill Farm- awaiting confirmation
✨Gulshan Tynemouth - £50 food drinks voucher
✨SKN+ 3 x £100 vouchers in gift bags ❤️
✨S&K Skip Hire - £100 drinks hamper 💙

If any other local businesses would like to help support this amazing cause in memory of Cruze & Pandora, please inbox me regarding donations, raffle prizes or vouchers.

Together we can help grieving families create precious memories with their babies 👣💖

14/06/2026

My daughter’s death isn’t something I should have to hide.

Pandora existed.
She was loved.
She mattered.

If sharing her story makes people uncomfortable, imagine the reality of living without her.

I will continue to speak her name, share her photos and honour her life, because she is my daughter and always will be 🤍👣💖

08/06/2026

🤍🫧 A Special Visit to Cruze & Pandora Today 🫧🤍

Today we spent some precious time with our beautiful babies, Cruze and Pandora. 👣🤍

We took a bubble machine with us, and as we stood by their grave, hundreds of bubbles filled the air and drifted across the cemetery. Watching them float gently over Cruze and Pandora and across all the other babies’ graves was such a beautiful and emotional moment.

For a little while, it felt as though the cemetery was filled with love, memories and angels. 🫧✨

As the bubbles danced in the wind, I couldn’t help but think of all the precious babies who should still be here, loved and missed every single day by their families. It was both heartbreaking and beautiful all at the same time.

Cruze and Pandora, we miss you more than words could ever say. Not a day goes by that we don’t think about you, talk about you and carry you with us in everything we do.

Your little lives continue to inspire us every day, and through Cruze & Pandora’s Legacy, your names will continue to help other families who are facing the same heartbreak.

Until we hold you again, keep dancing amongst the bubbles, our beautiful babies. 🫧🤍👣

Forever loved.
Forever missed.
Forever remembered.

Love always,
Mummy 🤍👣

🤍🫧

🤍✨ CHARITY NIGHT UPDATE ✨🤍I am absolutely blown away by the kindness, generosity and support shown by our community over...
08/06/2026

🤍✨ CHARITY NIGHT UPDATE ✨🤍

I am absolutely blown away by the kindness, generosity and support shown by our community over the past week. The number of local businesses and individuals who have donated prizes and vouchers for Cruze & Pandora’s Legacy has been incredible.

I am still waiting for more vouchers and prizes to arrive, so our prize list continues to grow every day! 💖

Without the amazing support from all of these businesses and the people who have donated, this charity night simply would not be possible. From the bottom of my heart, thank you to every single person who has helped us so far. Your kindness means more than you’ll ever know. 🤍

🎁 SOME OF OUR TOP PRIZES SO FAR INCLUDE 🎁

✨ £200 CASH donated by Clarks Heating & Plumbing
✨ £200 Voucher from Rose Lodge
✨ £150 Tasting Menu for 2 at Nest Dining
✨ £109 Lumi-Pro Skin Booster from Mya Stans
✨ £100 Cash from Premier Whickham
✨ £100 Voucher from Katie’s Aesthetics
✨ £100 Voucher from Aesthetics by Amy Rose
✨ £100 Food Voucher from Uncle’s Panuzzo & Sandwiches
✨ Table for 4 at City Vaults Newcastle with 8 free drink vouchers
✨ Meal for 2 & drinks at The Bridle Path
✨ Afternoon Tea for 2 at Irvine’s Café
✨ £50 Metrocentre Voucher
✨ £50 Voucher from Heavenly Delights
✨ £50 Voucher from Seaside Travel
✨ Brand New Ray-Ban Sunglasses from James Wood Eyecare
✨ Brand New Carpet from Leslies Carpets
✨ Plus many more beauty, food, entertainment and shopping prizes!

🎟️ RAFFLE TICKETS ARE NOW ON SALE 🎟️

We now have OVER £2,000 worth of prizes donated, with more being added every week!

💙 Raffle tickets are just £1 per strip
💙 Available from myself or behind the bar at Dunston Excel

🎶 CHARITY NIGHT TICKETS NOW AVAILABLE 🎶

📅 Saturday 12th September 2026
📍 Dunston Excelsior WMC

Entry tickets are now on sale for just £5 each.

On the night we will have:

🎤 Live singer Chloe Weston
🎸 Double Denim performing all the biggest 90s classics
🎁 Huge raffles with amazing prizes
🎶 90s music all night
💃 Dancing and entertainment
✨ Plus more surprises still being arranged!

⚠️ Please remember, you MUST have an event ticket to gain entry on the night.

Tickets can be purchased directly from myself or behind the bar at Dunston Excel.

Every ticket purchased, raffle ticket sold and donation received helps us move closer to providing cooling cots for bereaved families in memory of our beautiful babies, Cruze & Pandora. 👣💙💗

Thank you all for your continued support. Together we can make a real difference. 🤍

27/05/2026

Forgot to post the other day sorry everyone not had best with with my emotions

Raffle tickets now on sale £1 a strip sorry I’ve been quite but it’s the school holiday and been spending lot time with ...
26/05/2026

Raffle tickets now on sale £1 a strip sorry I’ve been quite but it’s the school holiday and been spending lot time with the children

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