01/09/2026
❗️After school restraint collapse❗️
Share now to spread awareness-this isnt just for early years, this can apply to all children and young people
The next few weeks are a busy period of transitions-please share this info out
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🔑= CO-REGULATE
👉🏼what it’s NOT ..
✖️your child being mean or naughty on purpose
✖️ your child misbehaving
👉🏼what it IS ..
✔️A child that is finally in their safe place/ space (home) after a long day filled with overload of sensory input and information- visual, auditory, tactile -Remember your first day at a new job 🤯
✔️A child who worked sooo hard all day to hold it together & finally (finally!) feels comfortable (and safe) to be able to release it. all....!!!
✔️ An exhausted child who had to follow directions all day from possibly a new teacher (stranger right now) after 2 months of free time in the summer holidays as well as a new classroom/ environment
✔️A child who was surrounded by adults and other children (many classrooms have 30 kids in them- have you ever shared a workspace with 30 colleagues 🤯) & now their bodies, minds, nervous systems needs their own time and space!
To DOWN REGULATE ❤️
TIPS ..
•Food can be a source of calm-
✔️Crunchy foods-carrots -apples- crackers
✔️Thick textures- sucking drinking out of a water bottle or smoothie / milkshake through a straw can promote a calming effect on the nervous system
hot choc/ cheese on toast
✔️create a safe space or a go to space they can have alone time
✔️quiet the environment & reduce visual stimulation turn the lights down / close curtains or only have natural light/ lamp
✔️slow down - take time to be present with them -COREGULATE - Lay off all the questions
✔️sensory play - lots of tactile input -kinetic sand, playdough, fidgets
✔️water - bath / shower with shaving foam, bath bombs, bubbles (sensory)
✖️Do not punish ‘negative emotions’ or ignore, dismiss, or reject negative emotions. A child’s feelings of invalidation are associated with social-emotional difficulties and psychological distress
‘ FEELINGS ARE JUST FEELINGS, THEY ARE NOT ME’ 🌈
& most IMPORTANTLY • keep yourself calm
-Regulate yourself
let them know they are safe 💜
And enjoy the rain free days ☀️☀️☀️