08/09/2026
“It’s okay not to be okay.”
We say it so easily. We tell people we’re there for them, that they can talk to us, that they don’t have to pretend everything is fine.
But what happens when the person who isn’t okay is the person we rely on?
And when we ask, “How are you?” are we genuinely prepared to hear the answer? Or do we sometimes say, “I hope you’re well” because, without even realising it, we’ve already decided what we want the answer to be?
This week’s CHOOSEDAY explores the difference between saying we care and what that can actually look like when somebody we depend on has nothing left to give.
Because looking okay on the outside doesn’t always tell us what’s happening underneath.
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