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Relational Somatic Therapy | Helping you move beyond insight into a felt experience of safety, connection & self compassion.

Integrating Embodied Processing | Bodywork | Nervous System Support.

06/09/2026

A little summer reflection…

August always brings a natural lull in the usual rhythm of things.

I used to struggle a bit when things quieten down. But I’ve learned to enjoy the space and trust that inevitably it gets filled with other things.

Something I’m noticing is that life doesn’t divide itself into good bits and hard bits.

It’s all mixed in together.

Through August this year there have been moments of uncertainty, change, worry and things to navigate.

And there have also been moments of laughter, connection, music, silliness and being completely in the moment.

Like this one 😂 Me, on my son’s shoulders at the Poole Harbour festival.

Not a perfect summer picture. Just a very joyful, very ridiculous moment in the middle of everything else.

And I think there’s something quite beautiful about that.

Allowing the whole experience of being human.

Not needing everything to be okay before we can enjoy something.

Not needing to have it all figured out.

Not pushing away the difficult stuff, but not letting it swallow up the good stuff either.

Just noticing what’s here, as life keeps moving.

Holding on and letting go.
Safety and uncertainty.
Connection and independence.

September always feels like another little shift in rhythm, and this year it feels like a fresh chapter for me too.

I’ve given Freedom Within a fresh look - a simpler, clearer website that feels much more like me and the work I’m doing now.

So, if you’d like to, take a little look. The link is in my bio.

www.freedomwithin.me

So here’s to whatever this next season brings. And to allowing ourselves to experience all of it. 🤍

27/07/2026

Sometimes six days can change the way you see things.

I’ve just returned from London after completing the second half of my NeuroAffective Touch training, and I’ve spent the last few days at home letting it all settle.

I thought I’d return full of new techniques. Instead, I’ve come home with something harder to put into words.

It wasn’t really about learning more techniques.

It was about deepening my understanding of what it means to truly be with another person.

Again and again, I was reminded that healing doesn’t happen because someone knows the right thing to do.

It happens in relationship.

In the quality of our presence.

In feeling met rather than managed.

In not feeling alone.

One of the things that has stayed with me most is how differently I find myself seeing people.

Not as diagnoses.

Not as symptoms to fix.

But as whole human beings.

People who have adapted in extraordinary ways to cope with life’s experiences.

People carrying stories we often can’t see.

This week has also reminded me that we cannot heal the world.

We can’t take away another person’s pain.

But we can meet one person at a time with presence, compassion and care, becoming a safe harbour if they choose to rest there for a while.

And sometimes, that’s where something begins to shift.

I also came home with something rather lovely...

A set of nurturing support pillows, designed specifically for NeuroAffective Touch. They’re simple, but they create a profound sense of support for the body, and I’m looking forward to introducing them into my sessions over the coming weeks.

For so many of the people I work with, those living with chronic stress, burnout, persistent symptoms, chronic fatigue, ADHD, or simply the feeling of always having to hold everything together, life has often become about pushing through.

This work offers something different.

Not another thing to achieve.

Not another technique to master.

Just the opportunity to experience what it feels like to be deeply supported.

And sometimes, that can be the beginning of everything.

08/07/2026

There’s something beautiful about this photograph.

Three people.

A grandfather.

His grandchildren.

A quiet moment.

Watching fireworks.

Looking out over Poole Harbour.

If I were standing beside them, I don’t think I’d say anything.

I’d just stand there too.

Because some moments don’t need words.

They simply remind us what matters.

Not performing.

Not explaining.

Just…

Being.

Together.

As my dad’s dementia progresses, moments like these have become even more precious.

They remind me that connection isn’t always found in words.

Sometimes it’s simply found in being together.

And perhaps that’s enough 🤍

02/07/2026

Recently, during my own therapeutic work, I experienced something new.

My practitioner said:

“I’ll sit with you whilst you sit with it.”

I already understood, intellectually, that every part of us deserves to be welcomed with compassion.

But this wasn’t about understanding.

It was about experiencing what it felt like not to hold something on my own.

The circumstances didn’t change.

But my relationship with what I was feeling did.

What had felt like an ominous sense of dread in my belly softened.

Not because someone took it away.

But because, for the first time, I wasn’t carrying it alone.

That feeling is still there from time to time.

Only now, it doesn’t feel ominous.

It feels like a small part of me that needs kindness.

Something I want to turn towards, rather than away from.

Perhaps healing isn’t about making fear disappear.

Perhaps it’s about discovering that fear can be met with support, compassion and relationship..

We heal in relationship. With a safe other. And gradually… with ourselves.

Freedom isn’t found in never feeling fear.

It’s found in no longer being alone with it. 🤍

24/06/2026

“I know exactly why I do this.” - is something I hear often.

And sometimes it’s true.

People understand the impact of their childhood.

They understand their patterns.

They understand where their fears come from.

The insight is there.

But insight and transformation are not the same thing.

Because some experiences live beyond words.

They live in the body.

In our habits of bracing.

In the way we hold ourselves.

In the emotions we never quite learned how to feel.

Understanding matters.

But sometimes the next step isn’t more understanding.

It’s experience.

18/06/2026

The Mood Meter is a lovely resource which I introduce a lot of my clients to.

When you are dealing with difficult things like pain and fear, there can be a tendency to jump quickly into the meaning, analysis and understanding.

The Mood Meter quietly asks a different question.

Before we understand it … can we notice it?

Before we explain it … can we name it?

Before we change it … can we be with it?

15/06/2026

One of the things I notice is that people often don’t arrive knowing exactly what they need.

People don’t say:

“I think I need NeuroAffective Touch.”

Or:

“I’m looking for a polyvagal informed somatic practitioner integrating relational psychotherapy.”

Instead, they say:

“I’m exhausted.”

“I should be coping better than this.”

“I don’t feel like myself.”

“I don’t know why this feels so hard.”

Or simply:

“I don’t know what I need… but I feel like I need something you could offer.”

If this is you, I want you to know that not knowing is welcome here.

You don’t have to arrive with certainty.

You don’t have to have the right language.

Sometimes the first step isn’t having the answer.

It’s simply listening to the quiet part of you that knows something needs to be different.

And allowing that to be enough.

These beautiful photos were taken by the talented .and.flare and gifted to me by 🙏 🤍

11/06/2026

Amongst all the usual shells at Sandbanks beach, I found this one, beautiful and unbroken. A glimmer. Like finding a little piece of myself🤍

I often meet people who come wanting to understand why they feel the way they do.

To make sense of symptoms.
To understand the impact of what they've lived through.
To regain some control over experiences that can feel frightening, confusing, or exhausting.

And that exploration matters.

But sometimes, in the midst of tracing what has hurt, something else quietly emerges.

A story about what is still intact.

The place where someone lights up when they speak about doing something they love.

The moments where they trust themselves without thinking.

The experiences of connection, flow, competence, vitality.

What if these moments aren't just pleasant exceptions?

What if they are resources?

What if they reveal capacities that have been there all along? Amongst all the usual things we notice.

Not to bypass pain.
Not to deny difficulty.

But to remind us that we are always more than the hardest parts of our story.

07/06/2026

Sometimes we become so accustomed to holding everything ourselves that we forget support is possible.

Not because we don’t want it.

But because self reliance can become a very familiar way of being. It’s what you know.

One of the things I value about body based work is that it offers experience, not just understanding.

Experience of feeling supported.

Experience of feeling connected.

Experience of being met

…. feeling held

… feeling safe.

Sometimes those experiences can reach places that words alone cannot.

02/06/2026

Sometimes the ways we speak to ourselves can feel so familiar that we mistake them for who we are.

The self judgement.

The shame.

The feeling that somehow we are not enough…

or too much.

But often these experiences didn't begin as flaws.

They began as adaptations.

Ways of making sense of relationships, experiences, and environments that felt difficult to navigate.

Ways of staying connected.

Ways of staying safe.

Ways of belonging.

Over time, these adaptations can become so woven into our experience that we forget they were responses rather than identities.

What if the critical voice isn't who you are?

What if it is simply one part of a much larger story?

You are so much more than what you adapted into 🤍

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