16/06/2026
A little bit of honesty from behind the scenes of running a small business…
Running a small business is incredibly rewarding, but it can also be incredibly challenging, especially at a time when the cost of living is affecting so many people. I completely understand that for most families, keeping a roof over their heads and food on the table has to come first.
The reality, though, is that small business owners are often facing exactly the same pressures.
Many of you know that I’ve always tried to be as flexible and understanding as possible. If someone needed a little extra time to pay, I’d usually say yes. If somebody cancelled and I could squeeze them in elsewhere, I’d do my best. I’ve always preferred helping people to talking about policies.
Unfortunately, over recent months I’ve seen an increase in no-shows, very late cancellations, and situations where payment has been repeatedly delayed or never made at all. As a result, I’ve found myself in the uncomfortable position of having to chase people for payment for sessions that have already taken place.
If I’m honest, I hate doing that.
I became a therapist because I wanted to help people, not because I wanted to spend my evenings sending payment reminders and worrying about whether work I’ve already done will ever be paid for.
So after much thought (and after many people telling me I should have done this a long time ago!), I have introduced a new cancellation, rescheduling and advance payment policy.
These changes haven’t been made out of greed, nor because I don’t understand that people sometimes struggle. They’ve been made because Reflexions is not only my passion, it’s also my livelihood. Just like every other family, I need to be able to pay my bills, support my family, and keep providing the service that so many people rely on.
For those who already attend sessions, pay on time, and respect appointments, nothing really changes. In fact, thank you. Your support, loyalty and trust are what keep Reflexions going.
Sometimes being kind also means having healthy boundaries, and that’s something I’m still learning.
Thank you to everyone who has supported me, encouraged me, and gently reminded me that my time and expertise have value too. ❤️