02/09/2026
Yes, really 🤪
Because sometimes the way out of an anxious thought loop isn’t to think your way out of it.
It’s to get back into your body.
Tongue posture and anxiety might seem completely unrelated, but they can become part of the same mind–body feedback loop.
Your brain is constantly monitoring what’s happening inside your body, your breathing, heart rate, muscle tension, posture and sensations, and using that information to help interpret how you’re feeling.
That’s interoception.
It’s a big part of how we recognise and regulate emotion.
So what’s your tongue got to do with it?
Where the tongue sits can influence what’s happening around the jaw, neck shoulders and spine, affecting how we breathe and hold the body.
The brain reads the body.
Which brings me to golf. 🏌️♀️
Yesterday was a rubbish round.
I kept lifting my head. I know why.
I was rushing to see if I’d hit the ball ok.
That little moment of anxiety creates a physical response.
I tense.
I move.
I anticipate.
And then…
I hit a rubbish shot. 😤😂
And what do I instinctively want to do?
Think about it more.
Analyse it.
Try harder.
Control the thought.
But when the brain is caught in a loop, sometimes more thinking isn’t the answer.
We need to change the information coming back from the body.
So next time I’m standing over that golf ball, I’m going to try something much simpler.
Check my tongue. 👅😂
Where is it
Is my jaw relaxed
Am I holding my breath
Can I soften my body
Try this:
👅 Say “Nnnnn” and notice where your tongue naturally lands.
👅 Let it rest gently against the roof of your mouth, behind your front teeth.
😮💨 Relax your jaw, close your lips and take a few slow breaths through your nose.
Then simply notice.
Your jaw.
Your neck.
Your shoulders.
Your breathing.
And most importantly…
What do you notice inside?
Sometimes the way out of the thought loop isn’t to think harder.
It’s to come back into the body.
Your body is constantly sending information back to your brain.
Note to self:
Stop thinking.
Check the tongue. 😝
Relax the shoulders.
Breathe.
And just hit the bloody ball. 😂🏌️♀️