05/09/2026
A client came to see me because she was struggling to sleep.
She was exhausted, but as soon as her head touched the pillow, her mind would spring into action, and wouldn’t let go of all the days events, as it went over and over every detail.
After listening to her, I realised her mind was stuck in fight/flight mode and I needed to create a treatment that would allow her mind to feel safe, so it could switch and rest.
I began with blending essential oils, to create a calm aroma that I could use throughout the treatment.
I then used slow, rhythmic massage across her back, shoulders and neck to ease the physical tension her tired body was still holding onto.
Rather than asking her to lie on her front and turn over during the treatment, I positioned her comfortably on her side. This allowed me to massage her back while keeping movement and interruption to a minimum.
I followed this with gentle facial, scalp and head massage. The slow, repetitive touch gave her busy mind something quiet to focus on, without asking her to force her thoughts to stop.
I finished with reflexology and Reiki at her feet, allowing her to remain warm, still and undisturbed as the treatment came to an end.
Every part of the session had a purpose.
My aim was not to force her to relax or tell her to clear her mind. It was to create an environment in which both her body and mind could begin to feel safe enough to soften, settle and drift.
She didn’t need to decide whether she needed massage, reflexology, aromatherapy or Reiki.
She told me what she was struggling with. I blended the therapies around what she needed.