01/09/2026
My daughter went to her first festival this weekend… and if I’m honest, I was rather nervous about it. 😬
Not because I didn’t trust her, but because I’m a parent of a teenager! 🫣
When we purchased her ticket, I was so excited for her to have the experience. However, the closer we got to it, the more I started to worry about the 'what ifs!' and realising I couldn't be there to keep an eye on her.
My brain, of course, was more than happy to come up with a whole list of things that could go wrong. 😂
But this is where I had to take a leaf out of my own book!
I reminded myself that worrying doesn’t actually keep her safe.
It just keeps me nervous.
So rather than trying to stop the thoughts completely, I acknowledged them, took a breath and brought myself back to what I actually know. (The Facts!)
She’s sensible.
She’s prepared.
She knows what to do if she needs help.
She’s with people she trusts.
And most importantly… she deserves the chance to have these experiences.
I also remind myself that feeling worried doesn’t mean something bad is going to happen, it just means I care.
And actually, letting our children grow, explore and become independent means we have to get comfortable with being a little uncomfortable ourselves.
She had an amazing time, she's home safe and sound and I survived too! 😂❤️
For all the parents out there - I’d love to know, what’s the thing your child has done that made you think, “Oh God, I’m not sure I'm ready for this!”?
Steph 😊✨
Calm Waters Hypnotherapy, Psychotherapy & EMDR therapy
Based in Bristol & Online