Focus on the focus

02/02/2024

We are CLOSING DOWN Focus on the focus !
I always believed in creating and not just being a consumer ! I believed in making a difference !

I wish I can say I’m sorry to say we close down but I am not .
You should always evaluate the benefits a business brings you and how it enhances your life when it’s time to put in balance if it is worth continuing or not.
I have invested far more than I have received back on all levels; financially, emotionally, relationally, insurance, GDPR, marketing, the list is endless.

Quite frankly, the reality is : nobody gives a “thought” that you are trying to contribute positively to our society, despite of living day in day out with a chronic illness.
Not most of your friends! Not likely your church ! Not even your family most of the time !
In business you are alone!
Running a business is a lonely place to be for many and I experienced that from many aspects.
As always I started this business from a desire to create something that will serve others and enhance their lives.
But it comes a time when you have to ask yourself is it worth it and decide what is most important !

Sometimes making a difference to others means start with making a difference to yourself and knowing when to put a stop to what takes the energy out of you, giving you very little in return.
I have no energy to keep giving !

I have been chronically I’ll for many years but never wanted to accept illness affecting what I can do.

Now that we live the reality of our youngest son being neurodivergent and him needing us most, it makes complete sense that l put everything else and everyone aside and focus on ourselves as a family.
It’s a matter of priority and imagining what would you regret most down the line.

Thank you to those people who have attended either sessions or workshops that we put on.
We have truly enjoyed sharing the knowledge time and space with you.
You truly made my heart smile. 😀

To the people who had so much to judge without ever running a business of their own, I invite you to try to run your own business first and then share your opinions based on your sweat and tears, from your experience and hard work you have done serving others !

To those who had encouraged me along the way thank you for your support. It really made a difference to me.

I don’t know if I will ever have enough energy to ever create and give or even re-start Focus on the focus and it’s a sad thing to say at my age really, but every lesson in life has to be taken and learnt !

Thank you all 😀👍.
I leave you with this :
LIVE IN THE PRESENT, TOMMORROW IS NOT A GUARANTEE FOR ANY OF US.
Take the chances you believe are worth it.
Is your gain worth the pain?
Bella . X

25/12/2023

If you are celebrating Christmas, as we are I wish you a Merry Christmas from me and also on behalf of my family. Focus on the focus
Regardless of which Holiday you're celebrating, I hope you're making the most of it and I wish you warmth and happiness.

One of the main emotions I feel over the Holidays is gratitude - I'm so thankful for my family and friends and the time we have together.

And I'm very thankful for you too.

Thank you for letting me be a part of your journey in life. I hope that you get a lot of benefit out of posts, and events I share with you.

Thank you for enriching my days and allowing me to follow my life's purpose. Your support means the world to me!

I'm very much looking forward to 2024 and all of the possibilities it holds.

As we revel in the Holiday spirit and see out the final week of 2023, I hope you'll take time to reflect on all the things you have, to be grateful for.

Even if it's been a challenging year for you, there will be positives you can take away from it...

Consider the progress you made, the connections you've formed, the things that you've learned...

And know that each year - in fact, each day, is a new opportunity to take action in the direction of your dreams.
Blessings and here’s to a healthy new year 2024.

Focus on the focus, all my love and best wishes !
Bella 😃x

20/12/2023

In your mind create the world you want to have ! Everything we create, first starts with a thought in our minds ! ❤️

15/12/2023

On a usual day our Mindfulness garden is at the disposal of our customers at Focus on the focus Hub !
Today, the chickens decided they want to use it 🤩😂.

15/12/2023

Everyone has a past and everyone needs some sort of healing from the past or even in their present life.
But every healing starts with a choice !
The choice to start !
What is the healing you need ?
Take the first step
Bella 🫶 Focus on the focus

02/12/2023

You are invited to a Family fun Workshop @ Focus on the focus Hub. 🌲❤️
Please scan QR code to make payment.
Pre-booking essential !
Saturday 9th December
Choose time 10.30-12.00
Or 14.00-15.30
Please tell us numbers of adults and children participating in workshop.
Please note, once booked there will be no refunds; however should you be unable to attend you may offer your space on the workshop to someone of your choosing.
Many thanks . Looking forward to welcome you. X

28/11/2023

When you stop missing, everything comes back to you.
When you stop fighting with the world, everyone comes closer to talk to you about love.
When you accept, you transform.
When you dare to try new, the conditions disappear and the world surprises you.
When you become like water, you pe*****te all the pores of the earth.
When you let go of what is not meant for you, this emptiness attracts what truly belongs to you.
When you lose yourself, you find yourself.
When you decide, that determination finds who you are, and whispers what you want.
When you calm your mind, the whole universe stands at your feet.
When you take your time, everything comes closer to you.
When you stop wanting to control, the world will adjust itself.
When you accept change and uncertainty, you stop suffering.
When you become humble, the world belongs to you.
When you find yourself, the search stops.
When you embrace your pain, you turn it into friend.
When you become aware, the God in you appears. ❤

Michael Carbon

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Quando smetti di sentire mancanze, tutte le cose tornano a te.
Quando smetti di litigare con il mondo, tutti si avvicinano per parlarti d'amore.
Quando accetti, trasformi.
Quando osi provare il nuovo, spariscono i condizionamenti e il mondo ti sorprende.
Quando diventi come l'acqua, penetri tutti i pori della terra.
Quando lasci andare ciò che non è per te, questo vuoto attrae ciò che realmente ti appartiene.
Quando ti perdi, ti ritrovi.
Quando ti decidi, quella determinazione trova chi sei, e ti sussurra ciò che vuoi.
Quando calmi la tua mente, un intero universo si mette ai tuoi piedi.
Quando non ti metti fretta, tutto si avvicina a te.
Quando smetti di voler controllare, il mondo si accomoda da solo.
Quando accetti i cambiamenti e l'incertezza, smetti di soffrire.
Quando diventi umile, il mondo ti appartiene.
Quando trovi te stesso, cessa la ricerca.
Quando abbracci il tuo dolore, lo trasformi in amico.
Quando diventi cosciente, appare il Dio che è in te.❤

Michele Carbone

26/11/2023

Are you coming this Wednesday ?
Focus on the focus Hub to take the weight of your shoulders, re-align your mind and have a cuppa with other likeminded women ?

Also I have had some of you ask if I could do a different day.
I am considering doing Thursday as well. If you asked about it previously, would Thursday be a good day for you ?
Thanks .
Bella

25/11/2023

Mindset and Well-being Session (Focus on the focus ) £5 first session Click for details 👆👆