05/09/2026
So the other night we were having a chat about the spiritual community supposedly being all love and light.
Let me tell you that’s one big dollop of 💩🤣
People who work with spirit, energy healers, mediums, witches, whatever label you want to put on it,are human the same as everyone else.
We all have a light side and a dark side.
And honestly I’ve found myself wanting to take a step back from the spiritual community a good few times because it can be a toxic environment.
But lately I’m just enjoying my events, meeting so many new people, creating spaces where people can come as they are, and doing what I bloody love.
No false pretences. No trying to be something I’m not. No competing.
Just me, doing what I love, meeting some amazing people and enjoying the journey.
Not many people want to cheer you on. Not many genuinely want to see you do well.
It can be full of love and full of s**te. 🤷♀️
Because the truth is, we all have pasts.
We all have bad days.
We all have tempers.
We all f**k up.
I was an absolute menace to society when I was growing up. 🤣 ( I'm not now 🤣)
I’ve always had a caring heart, but I was also a little bit of a lunatic.🙈
I’ve hurt people.
I’ve said horrible things.
I’ve broken people's hearts.
And some of those hearts I've broken, I’ll never forgive myself for because it was never deserved.
And then there’s me at that time of the month with PMDD 🤣
I’m the devil on steroids.
Mix that with peri-menopause and I’m the devil on supercharged steroids. 🤣🤣
My point is
We are not perfect.
We’re allowed to f**k up.
We’re allowed to have bad days.
We’re allowed to lose our temper.
We’re allowed to tell someone to f**k off. 😂 I do this a lot actually 🤣🤣
And we’re certainly allowed to stop people standing on our toes.
I absolutely love holding space for people, but not for one minute do I make out that I’m all love and light no one is and that's a fact.
Because that would be one big fat lie.
I’ll cheer for others.
I’ll share their work.
I’ll encourage people to try different venues, different circles, different experiences.
I’m nice that way. 😂
But I’m also me.
I’ve always been gobby.
I’ve always been straight to the point.
I’ve always been spiritual.
And I’ve always loved helping people.
But I have a light side and a dark side, just like everyone else.
So if you’re stepping into the spiritual world thinking it’s all love, light, positivity, high vibrations and everyone holding hands singing Kumbaya
Please think again. 🤣
There are beautiful people in this community.
There are also people who will smile to your face and stab you in the back.
Just like everywhere else.
Because spirituality doesn’t magically make you a better human.
But being able to hold your hands up, own your s**t, learn from your mistakes and not become bitter and twisted because of them?
That’s what matters. 🖤🤍🔮
And this is little old me below