Jess Ellis Coach S3LF

Jess Ellis Coach S3LF The S3LF Method helps ambitious women stop chasing perfection and build real, lasting mental and physical strength and fitness.

I help women who’ve tried it all finally find a way of training that feels right, lasts long, and actually fits their life via the S3LF Method.

04/06/2026

My secret is…

That game recognises game.

When I work with clients who struggle with all-or-nothing approaches, I get it.

More so than you might realise.

See once upon a time I struggled a lot with the feeling I only had two gears.

All in, or, what’s the point?

And it was fine, until it wasn’t.

I was held together like a badly wrapped present with physio tape for my injuries.

Tired, bloated, and inflamed.

I just couldn’t see it until the burnout signals were shining so bright, it made me stop 🚨

This week my client of 2 years sent me a thank you card.

And the thing that stood out was how far she’s come on a very similar journey.

One of loving training, but losing trust in when to rest and when to push on.

When to increase intensity and when to manage other things instead.

One of the best parts of helping someone is tweak fitness to make their life better.

Adding to it, without taking everything from them.

And if it sounds familiar, drop me a DM - I’d love to chat some more to get you where you want to be.

02/06/2026

I’ve been in the fitness industry (training and coaching) for almost two decades…

Here’s what I want you to know, that I wish I knew sooner.

When I first started I got effort and intensity so confused. I’d think if I wasn’t sweating it didn’t count, forgetting about movement quality, consistency and intention.

I also thought for years that macros was the only way keep a tab on nutrition, rather than asking key questions about how I felt, what I liked and how it fueled me.

Third this is realising you don’t need to a fitness cult to fit in. You can still care about your goals without having to a trend.

And lastly, realise that your fitness takes time, but by giving it yours, it returns it back tenfold.

These are some of my golden lessons, I’d love to hear yours ⬇️

30/05/2026

Calling all BIG DAWGS! 🐕

You know who you are.

And you know that the biggest thing that’s stopping you from reaching your fitness goals right now…is you.

For years I told myself I’d run this ultramarathon, that one day would get the time.

But the time wouldn’t come if I didn’t make time.

You might be the type of woman that smashes so many areas of your life, but fitness either gets lost in the priorities, or you don’t know how to step up into the goals you do have.

You always feel like you’re waiting for the perfect time.

When things quieten down, or when you’ve got some more time to commit.

But reality is those times never come, and you have to make time for the things that matter to you.

I’ve been working in this industry nearly 10 years and the “big dawg” mentality that gets you far in so many areas of your life - work, family, your ambitions, deserves to be fulfilled in your fitness.

So this is just a reminder, in case you’ve forgotten, you are a big dawg 🐕 (woof woof girl) and you owe it to yourself to stop letting your own limiting beliefs stopping you moving forward.

Who knows what you could achieve? 💫

10 years ago. No regrets 🤗Apart from the bloody Mega Bus ticket 🎫
28/05/2026

10 years ago. No regrets 🤗

Apart from the bloody Mega Bus ticket 🎫

There’s a big thing that stops women training.And it isn’t laziness (fr I don’t think I’ve met any)It’s this belief that...
27/05/2026

There’s a big thing that stops women training.

And it isn’t laziness (fr I don’t think I’ve met any)

It’s this belief that if they can’t do it properly, it’s not worth doing at all.

And I see you getting ready to say “Jess butttt….”

But the hesitation is killing the progress you could be making.

30 minutes is enough.

Two days a week is enough.

Imperfect and consistent beats perfect and occasional every single time.

I see it in my clients that focus on adapting rather than stopping.

I see it in those who want to do somettthing, rather than nothing.

The guilt you carry about the time you don’t have is wasted energy.

And it’s costing you more than the missed session ever did.

So stop waiting for the right window of time, that just might never come.

And use what you’ve got.

The best time is now 🌳

26/05/2026

This side of the fitness industry is on its way out ❌

People are sick of insecurity led marketing wrapped up as “being real.”

Fitness challenges that leave people more chewed up than when they started.

Misplaced trust in the next “guaranteed” product.

They want real change.

And I think this time, we’re seeing a shift.

People want empathy, compassion and authenticity.

Not fake authenticity, but someone who can be a real person, talking to another real person, connecting, relating, listening.

Preying on someone’s insecurities to create change has never been the one to move someone forward for healthy change.

And it just so turns out that being kind and connecting with people wasn’t soft, it was actually just ahead of its time.

Doing the dance lately 💃🏽🪩Good company, good coaching, good vibes❤️‍🔥
24/05/2026

Doing the dance lately 💃🏽🪩

Good company, good coaching, good vibes❤️‍🔥

20/05/2026

3 sets of 10 your go to rep range?

What about leg press, cardio then core?

See I see you, girl.

And I hard relate.

I was once there. Frustrated I wasn’t making the progress like I felt I deserved.

Because showing up in the gym wasn’t my issue.

It was that everything felt samey, and as a result, my progress stalled too.

Here’s what’s going on.

Showing up is the entry fee. It’s not the work.

The women who get real, lasting results aren’t doing more sessions than you.

They’re doing something different inside theirs.

There’s 3 things specifically you’re missing:

💥 mind to muscle connection: Are you feeling the muscle you’re supposed to be training, or just moving the weight from A to B?

💥 effort: not every set needs to be to “failure” but nothing ever being hard is keeping you stuck.

💥 ex*****on: lifting weights is a skill, and in order to wire it in, you need to slow it down. Rushing ain’t helping you here.

So if you want to grow, progress and move forward in your fitness, consider these and ask yourself if they’re holding you back?

Better yet, if you want to take the thinking out of it and have a hand, that’s just what I’m here for.

Nothing physically changes, unless you do this…I’ve met so many women in my time coaching who all tell me a familiar tal...
18/05/2026

Nothing physically changes, unless you do this…

I’ve met so many women in my time coaching who all tell me a familiar tale.

They’ve tried this program.

They’ve followed that workout regime.

Only to come out the other side in the same place.

It didn’t stick, and there’s a reason why.

Getting people exercising is the easiest part of my job, there I said it.

But getting people to go a layer deeper in their beliefs about themself, why they keep hitting the same hurdles, what they want to leave behind?

Now that, my friend, is where we see the world shift beneath their feet.

It’s how they start believing they’re someone who can make this I life long thing.

It’s where they start showing up as the person who does hard sh*t time and time again.

And it’s the person who realises that the physical stuff starts to stick as a consequence of this time of work.

Coaching is less about saying do this and do that.

And more so about helping you find out the things that have been holding you back, so you can smash through them like you’ve never had chance before.

That’s what I’m here for, to help you go there, and never look back 📈

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