07/08/2026
Recently I found out that my client, Luke, had passed away. Calling him a "client" though doesn't do any justice whatsoever to who he really was to me or what he meant in my life. He may have started out as a client and that professional relationship may have continued, but it continued alongside a real friendship that we struck up pretty much instantly. He wasn't really a "client" at all, even if I was his PT, what he really was, was a true friend who I cared for deeply and I truly appreciated having in my life, and my heart is broken that he's suddenly gone.
One of the things I've always been grateful for in my career is the fantastic people I've met and the friends I've made along the way, and Luke was absolutely a perfect, shining example of that. A genuinely good, kind, caring and funny guy who I likely would have never had the pleasure and honour of knowing had I not pursued a career in fitness. I'm proud to have been his PT and to have seen him grow in the gym, but I am far, far prouder to simply be able to say and to know that Luke and I were mates, and even though he's not with us any more, we always will be now.
Something I'll never forget for the rest of my life is the legitimate joy and excitement he showed me when I told him I was going to become a dad for the first time. It was as passionate and real, probably more so, than any other person in my life. The way his face lit up, the way he immediately grabbed me and hugged me, and his words of congratulations and pure happiness will always stay with me. That tells you a lot about the man he was. He had a huge heart that regularly shone through.
Cherish your friends and the people you love and care for and your time with them, make that time, because you never know when those chances to talk to them and be with them might no longer be there.
Rest in peace, Luke. I expected we had so many more years ahead for our friendship to continue to grow and so many more laughs together to come, but I'll never forget you, I'll always miss you, and I'll make sure I get 100% on GTA 6 for you, like we were both so excited about.
Love you, mate. I desperately wish you were still here for me to tell you that. ❤️