12/10/2026
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As I fast approach my 50th year on our beautiful earth, I’ve found myself looking back on my life and reflecting upon all the women I have been, and mostly still am, and I thought it worth celebrating!
These different phases I have moved through have made me who I am today, as difficult and challenging as some have been, they have given me the wisdom and life experience that have undoubtedly accentuated my work and have enabled me to offer a level of empathy and understanding, conveyed within an inner knowing, to those I sit with on a daily basis.
I have long believed “we are the sum of our experiences” (B J Neblett) and intrinsically feel that our identities, beliefs, values, and perspectives are not innate but are formed and continually shaped by everything we encounter throughout our lives.
Not only the significant, life-altering events but also the seemingly mundane, everyday interactions and observations.
Every joy, sorrow, success, failure, relationship, and challenge contributes to the complex tapestry of who we are.
It’s a holistic view of selfhood, rejecting the notion of a fixed, unchanging essence, and one that makes so much sense to me.
As it proposes that we are constantly evolving, adapting, and being molded by the world around us.
If our lives enable and allow us to align ourselves with our full potential, we will find the ability to grow and seek out opportunities for learning, growth and connection.
Much as I somehow managed to as a single parent on a minimum wage, powered by determination and a lifelong dream that wouldn’t let me give up, as I innately knew I had the power to curate my future and to actively shape the therapist I hoped to become.
Trusting this about myself and the instinct I seemed to have for the work, has been my driving force forward, now seen in real time, within my clients lives who are fulfilling their own dreams having worked through and embraced all of their different phases and roles they have had to be, and maybe still are, before they could meet themselves so fully in today.