17/06/2026
Right decision VS Wrong decision
🛣️ Firstly, there is no such a thing because different paths take us to different learnings.
Whether we want to take the shortest path or longest path will often be up to us.
However, misaligned and aligned decisions will feel different in your body.
An aligned decision often may look bonkers to those around you, an aligned decision may awaken within you the younger parts that feel fear as this is you treading on an unfamiliar path, therefore discomfort might arise too.
😌 However an aligned decision will carry an overarching sense of calm and peace within, where you just know you’ll be okay. Because there is coherence within you. Because you’ve not betrayed yourself or your core needs.
An aligned decision will also carry a sense of wonder, curiosity, joy or excitement for what lies ahead, even though it’s unknown.
😣 On the other hand a misaligned decision may look great on the outside, for example for the external world and to those who are living linear or societally laid out paths, however it will undoubtedly carry an endless need for inner and outer validation, such as “I think that was the right decision, because of this…because of that… and this also…” or “do you think I made the right decision?” to overcompensate for the disconnection between brain, body and intuition.
We often also feel disempowered and a strange sense of shame when we choose a misaligned decision.
Can you feel into what has been a major decision you had to make in the last week or month?
Now I’m going to leave you with a little guidance exercise to help bring some clarity.
📝 Find a pen and paper. Write your main decision as the tittle.
Now, can you make two columns?
On one side you can write:
“My brain thinks that…” and proceed to write down all that comes.
On the other side you can write:
“My heart feels that…” and proceed to write down all that comes.
🙏🏻 And for those of you who feel connected with your own sense of inner authority, inner knowing or intuition, you can create a third column and write:
“My intuition knows that…”
Sending peace and courage,
Maria Venus
