Best Self Solution Focused Hypnotherapy

Best Self Solution Focused Hypnotherapy Trauma informed Solution Focused Hypnotherapist working in the Southport area and online. Certified facillitator of The Mind Reboot program.

🌱 Waiting for Motivation? Try Action First. 🌱I'm feeling rather pleased with myself today because I've finally planted o...
25/06/2026

🌱 Waiting for Motivation? Try Action First. 🌱
I'm feeling rather pleased with myself today because I've finally planted out the last of my vegetables and plants grown from seed.
What's interesting is that, for whatever reason, I've found gardening much harder to get motivated for this year. Looking at trays of seedlings and jobs still to do seemed to require more effort than usual to get started.
So I used a strategy that I often share with clients: make the next step small enough to feel manageable.
Instead of focusing on everything that needed doing, I'd tell myself, "I'll just plant six."
Just six.
Once I'd started, something interesting happened. Six became ten. Ten became twenty. I'd often keep going far longer than I'd planned and achieve much more than I expected.
Neuroscience helps explain why. When a task feels too big, the brain can perceive it as a threat and encourage avoidance. Breaking it down into small, achievable steps reduces that sense of overwhelm and makes it easier to begin.
Then, every small action creates evidence of progress. The brain notices achievement, however modest, and rewards us with a little boost of feel-good neurochemicals. We feel more capable, more positive, and more motivated to continue.
In other words, motivation follows action, not the other way around.

I also celebrated each small step rather than focusing on what was left to do.

And now? the feeling is completely different.
Instead of seeing unfinished jobs, I'm looking forward to the rewards.
I already have tiny tomatoes and cucumbers forming on the plants that made it outside a few weeks ago.
So, whether it's gardening, exercise, work, or making changes in our lives, we don't always need to feel motivated before we start.

Sometimes we just need to take the smallest possible step.
Motivation catches up afterwards.

🌱 What's one thing you've been putting off that could be broken down into a smaller first step?

✨ Seize the Opportunity – You Never Know Where It Might Lead! ✨What a fantastic morning I had today at the Invest Sefton...
24/06/2026

✨ Seize the Opportunity – You Never Know Where It Might Lead! ✨
What a fantastic morning I had today at the Invest Sefton Economic Forum.
The interesting thing is, I only heard about the event by chance a few days ago when the lovely Emma Lyon from Most Sefton Magazine mentioned it and invited me along.
It would have been easy to think, "That's not really my thing," or "I'm too busy." But growth often starts with saying yes to opportunities that sit just outside our comfort zone.
One of the things I talk about with clients is that confidence doesn't usually come before we do something newβ€”it grows because we do it. Every time we take a small step into unfamiliar territory, our comfort zone expands a little more.
Today was a perfect example of that.
The room was filled with positive, forward-thinking people who are passionate about supporting local businesses and helping others succeed. There was such an uplifting atmosphere, with people openly sharing ideas, experiences, encouragement and opportunities.
I met some fascinating people, made new connections, learned a great deal, and listened to some truly inspiring speakers, hosted by Lizzie from Southport's Journey and Studio Nine.
It was a wonderful reminder that when we remain open to possibilities, good things happen. Sometimes the opportunities that help us grow are the ones we weren't actively looking for.
A huge thank you to Emma Lyon for mentioning the event and encouraging me to come along. You definitely expanded my horizons today!
Here's to staying curious, saying yes a little more often, and embracing the opportunities that come our way. You never know what doors they might open. 😊

πŸ’­ What opportunity have you said "yes" to recently that turned out to be worthwhile? πŸ‘‡

🌿🏏 I'm Excited to Be Part of Women's Wickets & Wellness! 🏏🌿I'm delighted to be attending Women's Wickets & Wellness at R...
23/06/2026

🌿🏏 I'm Excited to Be Part of Women's Wickets & Wellness! 🏏🌿
I'm delighted to be attending Women's Wickets & Wellness at Roe Lane Rookery on Sunday 28th June.

This fantastic event brings together cricket, health and wellbeing in a fun, supportive and welcoming environment. Whether you're interested in supporting thecricket, connecting with others, or exploring ways to support your physical and mental wellbeing, there will be something for everyone.

I'll be there representing Best Self Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, sharing information about how Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can help with:

✨ Managing stress and anxiety
✨ Improving sleep
✨ Building confidence
✨ Navigating life's challenges
✨ Enhancing wellbeing and resilience

I'm passionate about helping people understand how their brain works and equipping them with practical tools to improve their mental wellbeing, so please do come and say hello if you're attending.

Events like this are a wonderful reminder that wellbeing isn't just about looking after our physical healthβ€”it's also about connection, community, mindset and having opportunities to do things that make us feel good.

I'd love to see you there!

πŸ“ Roe Lane Rookery
πŸ“… Sunday 28th June, 12-6pm

Who else is coming along? Let me know in the comments...



πŸ“ž 07741 330226
πŸ“§ [email protected]
🌐 www.bestself.solutions

A Heartfelt Thank You πŸ’™A huge thank you to the lovely people who joined me at today's workshop.I had such a wonderful ti...
14/06/2026

A Heartfelt Thank You πŸ’™
A huge thank you to the lovely people who joined me at today's workshop.
I had such a wonderful time delivering it and sharing ideas, insights and practical tools to help regulate your nervous system and improve wellbeing. What always strikes me is how powerful it can be when people come together with an openness to learn, reflect and invest in themselves.
I am delighted to say that the feedback was really positive, with every participant reporting a measurable improvement in their wellbeing by the end of the session. Whilst everyone's starting point was different, each person left feeling better than when they arrived.
However, the real value of the workshop isn't just feeling good for an afternoon. The true benefit comes from understanding why you feel better and having practical tools you can use to recreate those beneficial effects every day.
By learning how the brain responds to stress, anxiety and overwhelm, and by understanding how to work with your mind and body rather than against it, you can begin to take greater control of your wellbeing. Small actions, practised consistently, can help strengthen the neural pathways associated with calm, confidence and resilience.
It was great to see moments of insight, understanding and optimism throughout the session. Thank you all for your engagement, your contributions and your willingness to embrace new ideas.
Remember, wellbeing isn't something that happens by chance. It's something we can actively nurture, one day at a time.
Thank you again for making today's workshop such an enjoyable and rewarding experience. I hope you left not only feeling better, but equipped with the knowledge, understanding and tools to continue creating positive change long after the workshop ended. Oops! I forgot to take a photo while you were there.
Amanda πŸ’™

Curious about how hypnotherapy can help you?Perhaps you've wondered what hypnotherapy is really like, how it works, or w...
10/06/2026

Curious about how hypnotherapy can help you?
Perhaps you've wondered what hypnotherapy is really like, how it works, or whether it could help you.
If you'd like to find out more, why not come along to my upcoming workshop?
You'll discover how Solution Focused Hypnotherapy can help you:
✨ Reduce anxiety and stress
✨ Improve sleep quality
✨ Feel calmer and more in control
✨ Build confidence and self-esteem
✨ Break free from unhelpful habits and patterns
✨ Increase resilience and emotional wellbeing
You'll also learn some fascinating neuroscience about how the brain responds to stress and anxiety, and why understanding this can be the first step towards creating positive change.
One of the things people often find most reassuring is that Solution Focused Hypnotherapy doesn't involve talking about past problems. Instead, it focuses on helping you move forward, building on your strengths and creating the future you'd like for yourself. You don't need to disclose or unpack difficult experiences for the therapy to be effective.
The workshop is relaxed, informative, and suitable whether you're simply curious or actively looking for ways to improve your wellbeing.
πŸ“… Sunday 14th June
πŸ“ The White House, Southport
⏰ 10:30-13:30
Last few places left -
To reserve your place click the link https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-calm-reset-workshop-the-white-house-southport-tickets-1209699075499?aff=oddtdtcreator&_gl=1*1m86jas*_up*MQ..*_ga*NjkyMzUxNDI4LjE3ODA5OTI3OTE.*_ga_TQVES5V6SH*czE3ODA5OTI3OTAkbzEkZzEkdDE3ODA5OTI4MDIkajQ4JGwwJGgw
or message me direct for 2+ tickets
πŸ“ž 07741 330226
πŸ“§ [email protected]
🌐 Best Self Solutions

✨ Last Few Places Remaining! ✨Are you feeling stressed, anxious, struggling with sleep, or simply ready to invest some t...
09/06/2026

✨ Last Few Places Remaining! ✨
Are you feeling stressed, anxious, struggling with sleep, or simply ready to invest some time in yourself?
There are now just a few places left on my upcoming workshop, and I'd love for you to join us.
This interactive workshop will help you understand how your brain works under stress, why we can sometimes feel stuck in unhelpful patterns, and, most importantly, what you can do to improve your wellbeing and resilience.
You'll learn:
βœ… How stress affects the brain and body
βœ… Simple neuroscience-based techniques to feel calmer and more in control
βœ… How your thoughts influence your emotions and behaviour
βœ… Practical tools to improve sleep, wellbeing and everyday resilience
βœ… Relaxation techniques you can continue using long after the workshop
One of the things participants often find most reassuring is learning that the brain is designed to change. Through neuroplasticity, new neural pathways can be created, helping us move away from old habits and towards healthier, more positive ways of thinking and responding.
Whether you're feeling under pressure, lacking motivation, or simply curious about how to optimise your mental wellbeing, this workshop offers a supportive and informative space to learn, reflect and recharge.
πŸ“… Sunday 14th June
πŸ“ the White House, Southport
⏰ 10:30-13:30
Only a few places remain, so booking is essential.
To reserve your place, click https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-calm-reset-workshop-the-white-house-southport-tickets-1209699075499?aff=oddtdtcreator&keep_tld=true
or contact me for 2+ tickets:
πŸ“ž 07741 330226
πŸ“§ [email protected]


😴 Tired of feeling tired?Do you find yourself lying awake at night, waking in the early hours, or feeling exhausted desp...
07/06/2026

😴 Tired of feeling tired?
Do you find yourself lying awake at night, waking in the early hours, or feeling exhausted despite spending enough time in bed?
Poor sleep doesn't just affect our energy levels. It can impact our mood, concentration, resilience, decision-making and ability to cope with everyday challenges.
When we're tired, life's demands can feel much harder. We become more reactive, more prone to stress and overwhelm, and often find ourselves stuck in a cycle where stress affects sleep and poor sleep increases stress.
That's one of the reasons I'm running The Calm Reset – Learn to Regulate Your Nervous System.
πŸ“… Sunday 14th June
⏰ 10:30am–1:30pm
πŸ“ White House, Southport
During this practical workshop, you'll learn how stress affects the brain and nervous system, why sleep can become disrupted, and simple, evidence-based techniques to help your mind and body switch off more effectively.
You'll leave feeling deeply relaxed on the day, but more importantly, you'll take away practical tools that can help support better sleep and greater wellbeing long after the workshop ends.
There are still a few places available. Click the link to reserve your place or
message me for 2+ tickets.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-calm-reset-workshop-the-white-house-southport-tickets-1209699075499?aff=oddtdtcreator&keep_tld=true

A reminder for today:Your nervous system doesn't always need something dramatic to feel better.Sometimes it responds bea...
06/06/2026

A reminder for today:
Your nervous system doesn't always need something dramatic to feel better.
Sometimes it responds beautifully to simple things:
🌿 A short walk
β˜€οΈ Five minutes outside
πŸ’§ Sitting beside water
β˜• A pause without multitasking
🎡 Music you enjoy
Small things repeated consistently often create bigger changes than occasional grand gestures.

What a Fabulous Afternoon! 🎢On Sunday, I took part in the my first Rock Choir performance since Christmas, at the Southp...
04/06/2026

What a Fabulous Afternoon! 🎢
On Sunday, I took part in the my first Rock Choir performance since Christmas, at the Southport Food and Drink Festival, and it reminded me just how uplifting and exhilarating singing in a choir can be.

There’s something special about standing alongside others, breathing together, moving together, and creating harmonies that are far greater than the sum of their parts. The energy, connection, laughter and shared purpose leave you feeling truly alive.

And it isn't just a feelingβ€”there's fascinating neuroscience behind it.

Research shows that group singing can help reduce stress hormones such as cortisol while increasing feel-good chemicals including endorphins and endocannabinoids. Endocannabinoids are naturally produced by the body and are involved in regulating mood, reducing anxiety, easing pain and creating a sense of wellbeing. They are often linked to the warm, uplifted feeling people experience after activities such as singing, dancing or exercise.

Singing also encourages deeper breathing, which helps activate the parasympathetic nervous systemβ€”the part responsible for rest, recovery and restoration. At the same time, singing with others fosters social connection, which helps our brains feel safer and more regulated.

No wonder choir members often leave rehearsals and performances feeling energised, connected and happier than when they arrived.

A wonderful reminder that sometimes looking after our mental wellbeing doesn't have to involve sitting quietlyβ€”it can be as joyful as belting out a favourite song with a room full of people!

Thank you to everyone who made Sunday's performance such a fantastic experience. I came away smiling, buzzing with energy, and already looking forward to the next one. 🎡✨

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