Anita Lennox - Psychotherapy

29/05/2026

Reserve your space on this personalised 3-month weight management programme designed to support lasting transformation.

Places are limited, with one-to-one support throughout the programme.

What’s included:

• Initial Hypnotherapy & Herbal Medicine Consultation + follow up session: £175
• 6 Ongoing Support Sessions – £70 per session

Total Programme Cost: £595
(Recommended herbal medicines are charged separately)

Gastric Band Hypnotherapy available as a next step.

15/05/2026

Need a safe/confidential space to talk - contact Anita at [email protected] or 07837 683425

05/03/2026

Hypnotherapy & Its Benefits
https://www.totnestherapy.com

What is Hypnotherapy?

Hypnotherapy is a therapeutic approach that uses guided relaxation, focused attention and suggestion to help people access deeper thoughts, emotions and behavioural patterns. People remain aware and in control during hypnosis. Many individuals find hypnotherapy helpful alongside counselling or psychotherapy.

Potential Benefits

• Reducing anxiety and stress
• Managing fears and phobias
• Supporting behaviour change such as smoking cessation
• Improving sleep and relaxation
• Supporting emotional healing (grief, trauma, confidence)
• Helping with pain management and coping with chronic conditions

Research Evidence:

Research suggests hypnosis can support a range of psychological and physical outcomes. Examples include:
Research Links:

1. International Journal of Clinical and Experimental Hypnosis – Review of hypnosis in clinical practice:
https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/nhyp20/current

2. Stanford University School of Medicine – Research on hypnosis and brain processes:
https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2016/07/hypnosis-changes-brain-activity.html

3. American Psychological Association – Hypnosis and pain reduction research:
https://www.apa.org/monitor/2015/03/cover-hypnosis

4. Sleep Journal – Study on hypnosis and sleep improvement:
https://academic.oup.com/sleep/article/37/6/1143/2416893

5. American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis – Research articles on therapeutic hypnosis:
https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/ujhy20/current

Hypnotherapy works best as a collaborative process helping individuals access their own internal resources for change.
https://www.totnestherapy.com/hypnosis-for-change/

12/11/2025

A Counsellor’s Genuine Care for Their Clients
Genuine care in counselling goes beyond empathy — it is the quiet, consistent presence that holds another person’s pain with respect, patience, and understanding. A counsellor’s role is not to fix or advise, but to walk alongside a client as they find their own way through difficulty. Genuine care means listening deeply, without judgment or assumption, creating a safe space where every feeling is valid and every silence is accepted. It is shown through warmth, authenticity, and the belief that each person holds the capacity for growth and healing. True therapeutic care is steady and grounded — a relationship built on trust, compassion, and the simple but powerful act of being fully present. https://al-counselling.co.uk

01/11/2025

Investing in Your Wellbeing — Not Only When There Are Problems - Mindfulness for Wellbeing.

Many people seek therapy or wellbeing support only when life feels overwhelming — when anxiety peaks, relationships strain, or exhaustion sets in. But investing in your wellbeing doesn’t have to wait until you’re struggling. In fact, some of the most powerful healing and growth happen when you choose to nurture yourself while life is going well.

When We Usually Reach Out for Support
We often seek help when we’re facing challenges like:

• Anxiety or stress that feels unmanageable
• Depression or emotional numbness
• Grief, loss, or trauma
• Relationship difficulties or breakups
• Low confidence or self-worth
• Burnout, fatigue, or constant overwhelm
• Feeling “stuck” or disconnected from yourself

These moments can be deeply painful — and therapy offers a safe space to process, heal, and rebuild. But your wellbeing is so much more than just managing crises.

Wellbeing as Ongoing Care

Think of your emotional wellbeing like physical health. You don’t wait until you’re seriously ill to eat nourishing food, exercise, or rest — you do these things to stay well. Emotional care works the same way.

When your wellbeing is strong, therapy or self-development can help you:

• Deepen self-awareness and emotional intelligence
• Strengthen boundaries and confidence• Improve communication and relationships
• Build resilience before stress escalates
• Maintain balance, peace, and joy
• Create space for personal growth and purpose

Choosing to Grow, Not Just to Cope

Working on yourself from a place of stability allows you to explore life’s deeper layers — your dreams, values, and sense of fulfillment. It’s about evolving, not just surviving.
You begin to understand yourself more fully, build healthier habits, and create emotional strength that sustains you during life’s challenges.

Wellbeing as a Lifelong Investment

Investing in your wellbeing is an act of self-respect. It says, “I value myself enough to nurture my mind, body, and spirit — not just when I’m hurting, but every day.” Whether
through counselling, hypnotherapy, mindfulness, or self-reflection, your commitment to growth helps you live with more clarity, balance, and peace.

You don’t need to be in crisis to seek support — you simply need the desire to know yourself better and live well.

Because your wellbeing matters, always!

29/10/2025

Specific Integrative Counselling for Women

■ A safe, supportive space to heal, grow, and re-discover yourself.

Life can feel overwhelming at times — balancing relationships, responsibilities, work,
and emotional wellbeing. Our counselling sessions for women offer a calm,
confidential space where you can pause, reflect, and receive the support you deserve.

■ Support for a Range of Women’s Issues:

• Anxiety, stress, and emotional exhaustion
• Depression or low mood
• Relationship or family challenges
• Self-esteem and body image concerns
• Trauma recovery and inner healing
• Life transitions — motherhood, menopause, loss, or change
• Boundaries, confidence, and identity
• Overwhelm, guilt, and people-pleasing patterns

■ Why Choose Counselling?

Counselling helps you explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe, understanding
environment. Through gentle conversation, reflection, and guidance, you can begin to
understand your emotions, find clarity, and reconnect with your inner strength.

■ A Space Just for You

Every woman’s story is unique — and your healing journey deserves care and
respect. Whether you’re seeking relief from emotional pain, or simply space to
reconnect with yourself, this is a place to feel heard, supported, and empowered.

■ Begin Your Journey Today:

You don’t have to face everything alone. Let’s walk this path together — with warmth,
compassion and understanding.

Morning & Daytime Sessions Available — (Monday to Friday), taking place at my wonderful, peaceful practice room in Dartington Estate.

■ Book your Initial Counselling Appointment (60 or 90 minutes) – cost £55 ph. (concessions available).

Contact – Anita Lennox

T:07837 683425 (text messaging available with answer service) 24 hour response time.

E: [email protected]

W: https://al-counselling.co.uk

Because your wellbeing matters!

29/10/2025

How Hypnotherapy Helps Calm Anxiety & Alleviate Depression!

Feeling anxious can leave you exhausted — your mind racing, heart pounding, and body tense.

If you’ve tried to “just relax” but can’t seem to quiet your thoughts, hypnotherapy may be the gentle support you need.

What Is Hypnotherapy?

Hypnotherapy uses deep relaxation and focused guidance to help you access your subconscious mind — the part of your mind that stores habits, memories, and emotional patterns. In this calm, peaceful state, your mind becomes more open to
positive change.

How It Helps with Anxiety:

• Calms the nervous system and slows racing thoughts

• Replaces worry and fear with calm, confident thinking

• Helps you release old emotional triggers

• Restores balance, focus, and better sleep

• Builds lasting self-trust and inner peace

A Gentle Path to Calm:

You stay fully in control and aware throughout each session — it’s simply a guided, peaceful process that helps your mind learn how to relax again. Over time, you begin to feel lighter, calmer, and more confident in handling life’s challenges.

Hypnotherapy doesn’t just manage anxiety — it helps you transform it from the inside out. It can also helps to lift the effects of Depression.

How Does Hypnotherapy Help with Depression?

Hypnotherapy offers a gentle, supportive way to lift the emotional weight of depression by working with the subconscious mind — where negative patterns and self-beliefs often begin. Through deep relaxation and positive suggestion, it helps you release feelings of hopelessness, rebuild self-worth, and reconnect with motivation and joy. Over time, hypnotherapy helps restore balance, optimism, and a renewed sense of purpose from within.

The Benefits of Hypnotherapy for Depression:

Gently releases negative thoughts and emotional blocks

Encourages positive thinking and self-belief

Helps rebuild confidence and motivation

Promotes deep relaxation and mental clarity

Reduces feelings of sadness, guilt, or overwhelm

Supports healthy sleep and energy levels

Strengthens emotional resilience and inner calm

Helps heal unresolved grief or past emotional pain

Encourages self-compassion and acceptance

Restores hope, balance, and a sense of purpose

Begin Your Journey towards Calm Today and take the first step toward feeling more balanced and at ease.

Whether you’re experiencing daily stress or long-term anxiety & depression, hypnotherapy can help you reconnect with your natural sense of calm and confidence.

Contact below to book an Initial Counselling/Hypnotherapy Appointment. Anita Lennox (Counsellor. MNCPs.Acc)

E: [email protected]
T: 07837 683425 (text in the first instance)
W: https://al-counselling.co.uk

Counselling in Totnes and Exeter in Devon and Online with registered counsellor and therapist Anita Lennox who offers a holistic approach to healing.

07/10/2025

Case Study: Loneliness and Failed Relationships

A Woman’s Journey Toward Connection

Background

Sarah, a 42-year-old woman, sought counselling due to persistent feelings of lonelinessand a pattern of unsuccessful relationships. Recently divorced and living alone for the first time in over a decade, she described herself as “socially withdrawn, tired of trying, and unsure who I am without someone.”

She reported that her romantic relationships tended to start passionately but quickly became emotionally exhausting. Each breakup deepened her sense of failure, reinforcing the belief that she was “unlovable” and “too much.” Her loneliness was not limited to romantic loss — she felt disconnected from friends, her family, and even her own needs.

Presenting Issues

• Chronic loneliness and emotional isolation

• Low self-esteem and self-worth tied to relationship validation

• Anxiety about rejection or abandonment

• Difficulty setting and maintaining boundaries

• A tendency to over-invest emotionally in new partners

Therapeutic Goals

1. To build emotional awareness and self-connection.

2. To explore and challenge negative core beliefs about self-worth.

3. To understand relational patterns and attachment dynamics.

4. To develop healthy boundaries and self-soothing techniques.

5. To cultivate fulfilment and purpose beyond romantic relationships.

Therapeutic Approach

The counsellor adopted an integrative approach combining Person-Centred Therapy,

Attachment Theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and Mindfulness and

Compassion-Focused Techniques to nurture emotional regulation and self-acceptance.

Counselling Process

Initially, Sarah struggled to identify her emotions, often intellectualising experiences rather than feeling them. Mindfulness exercises helped her slow down and recognise sensations of sadness, anxiety, and longing. Through journaling and guided reflection, she began to see how her fear of abandonment stemmed from inconsistent care in childhood.

By session six, Sarah recognised that she often sought validation through care-takingroles in relationships — “I make myself indispensable so they won’t leave.” Together, counsellor and client explored this belief, reframing it as a learned strategy for safety rather than proof of weakness.

As therapy progressed, she practiced saying “no” in small, low-risk situations and discovered that boundaries could create emotional safety rather than rejection. Herself-talk softened from “I’m unlovable” to “I am learning to love myself.” Mindfulness-based self-compassion practices supported her between sessions, allowing her to sit with feelings of loneliness without rushing to fill the void with external approval.

Outcome

After four months, Sarah reported feeling calmer, more grounded, and less driven by fear of rejection. While she still desired partnership, her focus had shifted toward building authentic friendships, re-engaging with hobbies, and appreciating solitude as restorative rather than punishing.

She described this change simply: “I’m finally starting to like my own company — and that’s something I never thought possible.”

Reflections

This case highlights the deep link between attachment wounds, loneliness, and the search for validation in relationships. For women with similar experiences, therapy provides a path to reconnect with the self — transforming loneliness from a sign of failure into an invitation for growth and self-acceptance.

Totnes Therapy | www.totnestherapy.com

05/10/2025

A Mindfulness Journey for Women:

Written with care to support your mindfulness journey —
www.totnestherapy.com

In the quiet moments between everything you must do, there is a gentle invitation to simply be. For many women, life moves quickly — filled with the needs of others, work commitments, family roles, and the constant hum of responsibility. Yet somewhere beneath the noise, your own stillness is waiting. Mindfulness is the art of returning home to yourself — not by changing who you are, but by learning to pause and reconnect with what truly matters.

The Art of Slowing Down:

Mindfulness reminds us that peace doesn’t come from doing more, but from noticing more. When you slow down enough to breathe deeply, to taste your tea, to feel sunlight across your skin, you begin to inhabit your life more fully. This practice is not about perfection; it’s about presence — about meeting yourself with curiosity instead of criticism.

Living Life to the Full:

Life is too short not to invest in your well-being. The more you nourish your inner world, the more energy, compassion, and clarity you have to share with others. Mindfulness helps transform the ordinary into something sacred — a walk becomes grounding, a meal becomes gratitude, a breath becomes peace. When you commit to caring for yourself, you begin to live life to the full — awake to the small joys that were always there.

Gentle Mindfulness Practice:

Take a few moments each day to pause:

1. Sit comfortably and close your eyes.

2. Breathe in through your nose, feeling the air move through your chest and belly.

3. Exhale slowly through your mouth, releasing tension.

4. Bring your awareness to the present — the sounds, sensations, and feelings around you.

5. Notice your thoughts as they come and go, but don’t chase them. Let them be.

Each breath invites you back to yourself — to the safety of this very moment.

Reflection:

The greatest act of self-care is presence. The more you come home to yourself, the more peace you bring to the world around you.

29/09/2025

https://al-counselling.co.uk