10/10/2026
Yesterday I had a lovely catch up with a friend; we enjoyed cake and hot chocolate and a really good laugh. Today I did a work out at the gym. Both of these things are good things. I don’t believe in the idea of “being naughty” because I enjoyed some cake (carrot cake with the cream cheese icing, I love it!). I also don’t believe I need to go to the gym to make up for it. I go to the gym because I want to feel strong in my body and be able to enjoy an active life with my family for as long as possible. I fully intend to be a strong, disruptive old lady causing havoc 🤣. I eat cake because it tastes good and it’s fun to do with a friend. It’s all about balance. Squeezing pleasure out of life. Looking after yourself not because you “should” or because you think you should look a certain way. It’s about “nourishing life”.
In Traditional Chinese Medicine there is the concept of “yangsheng”, about how small daily actions nourish our sense of vitality. So pleasure and company, good nourishing food eaten with the seasons, movement and some exertion, rest and working on deep inner peace. Taking time to feel and acknowledge our emotions but not sitting too long in any one of them. But crucially not too much of any one thing. Not cake every day. Not lying around not moving for hours or days on end. Not exercising so hard and so often it damages us. Balance.
So often in my acupuncture clinic what I’m actually treating are things that have gotten out of balance. The muscle that’s so tight it’s forgotten how to let go, even though when it tightened up to protect you from hurting yourself it was doing a good thing. The tension headache that developed because you cared and worried so much for someone else but your body got stuck in stress that it can’t let go. The back ache that came on after months or years of quite literally carrying things that were too much for you in life and is trying to stop you before it’s too late.
We can all take small steps to bring balance back in to our lives. It’s not just something nice to do it’s essential for a vital life.