13/06/2026
The Gift of Possibility
What is it that confines us to a narrow path and keep us from even noticing opportunities?
Our beliefs create our reality and the world that is within our vision and reach. We spend our childhood into our twenties constructing a structure of belief that frames our lives.
Whilst we develop and change incrementally often the framework remains the same. Dependent on the space within the framework as to how we harness our abilities and take up those opportunities that present in our lives.
The programming of our beliefs are often carved out within the constraints of fear. Fear has the capacity to limit our exploits to a safe path within an infinite maze of possible routes.
The adventurous among us have been able to experience fear and associate it with excitement. The adrenal j***y will turn towards fear and thrive on the exhilaration.
Many of us are not open to the possibility these pursuits would bring a positive outcome and are risk adverse. We have been shaped by either first hand experience or secondhand fear passed on by those close to us. We are particularly vulnerable in childhood. The result is the unconscious mind ensures we avoid situations at all costs.
While caution in some situations is advisable, the unconscious mind is tasked to keep us safe and the flip switch of fear can be set so low it impedes every day activities and stands in the way of the success we seek.
Working with the fear driven mindset requires patience and resetting the safety zone. Remembering the unconscious mind does not work with or hear logic. It is purely emotionally based and acts on how safe it feels. Careful inquisitive questioning is required to discover the areas of possibility and gently without triggering the adrenals widening those possibilities to alter the level of risk aversion.
Where there are no possibilities the individual requires further foundations and deepening of their perceived safety to take any steps into unknown territory.
Encouragement is needed to step out of the comfort zone and gain evidence of beneficial gain by allowing some measured vulnerability.
Once possibility is established small steps can be taken and evidence noted of the benefits of the activity.
It is important to establish a perceived safety net internally and relate nervousness to being a positive attribute focused on the feeling that will arise on taking these courageous steps.
Once the evidence is gathered the momentum increases and confidence builds that the outcome is much more possible.
New horizons are created only once there is awareness of possibility. With a deeper level of self awareness we can unlock our self imposed limits as they lose their stronghold and become questionable. It is the key to the locked door and the light shining on what was in the dark.
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