03/06/2026
Unhinged things I do when my energy feels off ... these are not in any self help books π. But they're what I actually do - and they genuinely help! Save this for the next time you feel your energy is 'off' and share it with someone who needs permission to try something different β¨οΈ
1. Not answering messages right away ~ it can be tempting but oh so distracting when we do this, and it scatters our energy into different directions.
2. Not pushing through with plans when my body says 'no' ~ there is a fine line between showing up for yourself/ others and choosing selfcare to take some time out for yourself. You don't need to justify your choices, is ok to say no; it is a full sentence!
3. Sitting in silence. Breathe in. Breathe out audibly - stick out tongue all the way on outbreath! Witness how you're feeling ~ it is so freeing because it tells your nervous system it is safe to do this and it can relax now. Stay present and allow your inner state to shift
4. Slowing down on purpose and taking a few seconds to consciously bless the thing is feel I'm struggling with ~ blessing your feeling & thoughts, especially the unhelpful ones, helps to dissolve anything that is not aligned with you and can clear a pathway for more clarity
5. Chant ~ humming or chanting, especially also while massaging your ears! , activate the vagus nerve tp tell the body there is nothing wrong right now and you can relax
Our energy when it feels 'off', is only showing unconscious patterns that are not aligned to 'true you', and they're draining you. It's not a bad thing to feel off - don't berate yourself! Thank your ego for showing you where things may not be aligned with you, your values or maybe you're picking up on other people's stuff - either way ego tries to keep you with your 'safe' thoughts (based on consious or unconscious beliefs), but your feelings don't lie. They are aligned with your soul self.
Remember you always do your best with what you knew or know now. So you can create new tools & a new relationship with your nervous system & your boundaries π€.