Wild Ways & Lazy Days

Wild Ways & Lazy Days For women who want life to feel a little more like a Sunday morning. Because the life you're looking for might already be here.

Seasonal inspiration, meaningful community and beautiful experiences that bring more joy to ordinary days.

A Girl & Her Bookshelf - Cubby Hole 2 šŸ“šThis shelf holds my hardback David Gemmell collection.David Gemmell was my dad's ...
11/06/2026

A Girl & Her Bookshelf - Cubby Hole 2 šŸ“š

This shelf holds my hardback David Gemmell collection.

David Gemmell was my dad's favourite author.

He's also the reason I fell in love with reading.

As I got older, Dad introduced me to science fiction and fantasy. Before long, both me and my brother Mark were borrowing his books. Or, more accurately, stealing them.
Whenever a new David Gemmell book was released, Dad eventually learned that buying one copy wasn't enough. He started ordering three. One for him, one for Mark and one for me.

I've read every one of these books multiple times.
They're old friends now.
The kind of stories you return to when you need familiar characters and worlds that feel like home.

What I always loved about David Gemmell's writing was the depth of his characters. They were flawed, brave, complicated and human. His stories were full of courage, loyalty and doing the right thing even when it was difficult. And there was almost always a strong female character somewhere in the pages, even when she wasn't the hero of the story.

I adore hardback books, although I seem to spend half my time reading them while trying to balance them in increasingly ridiculous positions.

But I wouldn't swap them.
These books carry memories.
Of Dad.
Of conversations.
Of eagerly waiting for the next release.
Of shared stories.

And it seemed only fitting that some of Dad's ashes should sit here too, alongside the books he loved most.

A small place on the shelf.
Still part of the story. ā¤ļø

Does anyone else have books they return to again and again, like old friends?

I am so excited to finally be able to share this.A few months ago I sat down with Laila Safaee Consultancy  for a conver...
11/06/2026

I am so excited to finally be able to share this.

A few months ago I sat down with Laila Safaee Consultancy for a conversation about abundance, sustainability, success, slowing down and what it really means to create a life that feels good to live.

The episode is finally live today.

I watched it back this morning and, if I’m honest, I was blown away by how much we covered. We explored everything from fast fashion and consumerism to seasonal living, community, success and finding joy in ordinary days.

What I loved most, though, was the warmth of the conversation. It never felt like an interview. It felt like two friends sitting down together and having an honest conversation about the things that really matter.

I think that’s what makes this episode so special.

We talked about the pressure to constantly want more, whether abundance always has to mean consumption, and if it’s possible to create a life that feels rich, meaningful and abundant without costing the earth.

A huge thank you to Laila for inviting me onto the podcast. You have a wonderful way of bringing out the best in people and creating space for conversations that feel natural, thoughtful and real.

I’m so proud of how this came together.

If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s possible to live abundantly without costing the earth, this one’s for you.

I’d genuinely love to know what resonates most if you have a listen.

šŸŽ™ļø Season 3 Finale | Can You Live Abundantly Without Costing the Earth?

Season 3 ends with a conversation that genuinely changed the way I ...

šŸ“š A Girl & Her Bookshelf | Cubby Hole No. 01I’ve spent far too much time staring at this bookcase recently.What started ...
10/06/2026

šŸ“š A Girl & Her Bookshelf | Cubby Hole No. 01

I’ve spent far too much time staring at this bookcase recently.
What started as a bookshelf has become something else entirely. A map of the things I've been curious about. The questions I've asked. The ideas I've followed. The person I've become.

This first cubby hole sits right at the top left.

It's mostly filled with books about spirituality, belief and meaning. Buddhism has always fascinated me. Not because it asks you to place your faith in something outside yourself, but because it encourages kindness, self awareness, compassion and a deeper connection with both people and nature.

Alongside those are a couple of old Bibles. Church was a big part of my childhood and especially my grandparents' lives. One of the Bibles on this shelf was awarded as a Sunday School prize in 1910. Imagine the hands it's passed through before finding its way here.

There are books about mindset and personal growth. The Secret. The Alchemist. Books that found me at different stages of life when I was searching for answers, direction or simply a different way of seeing the world.

There are also a few adventure stories tucked in amongst them because even when I'm asking big questions, part of me still wants to disappear into a good story.
Looking at this shelf now, I realise I've never been particularly interested in being told what to think.

I've always been more interested in asking questions.
And perhaps that's what this cubby hole is really about.
What do you believe?ļæ½Why are we here?ļæ½How do we live a good life?

Not bad questions for a single shelf.
šŸŒæšŸ“š

Have you got a book that changed the way you see the world?

For the longest time, I struggled to explain what Wild Ways & Lazy Days is.Not because I didn’t know. But because I was ...
09/06/2026

For the longest time, I struggled to explain what Wild Ways & Lazy Days is.

Not because I didn’t know. But because I was trying to describe what it does, instead of why it exists.

So let me start there.

I believe women don’t need a whole new life. They need to reconnect with the one they already have.

Somewhere along the way, you stopped feeling it. You got so busy holding everything together that you lost the thread back to yourself. To the things that make you feel quietly, deeply alive.

That’s what this is about.

Not a new routine. Not a complete overhaul. Not another thing to add to your list.

A way back.

To the little things that fill you up. To women who get it - really get it. To a life that doesn’t just look good from the outside, but feels good from the inside.

Wild Ways & Lazy Days exists for the woman who’s ready to stop waiting until things slow down... and start living in the life she’s actually in.

Because life isn’t waiting for the weekend.
Or the holiday.
Or the moment things finally calm down.
Life is happening now.

Maybe that’s you.

Maybe you’ve been looking for it too. 🌿

Save this if it spoke to you. And come find us - this is just the beginning.

What’s the little thing that brings you back to yourself?

Soul Sisters, Seaside Saunas, Circle Gatherings and Solstice Adventures. This June, join us as we watch the sunrise from...
01/06/2026

Soul Sisters, Seaside Saunas, Circle Gatherings and Solstice Adventures.

This June, join us as we watch the sunrise from Old Harry Rocks on the longest day of the year, dip in the sea, sit in the warmth of the sauna, share stories with like minded women and remember that life isn't something waiting for us in the future. It's happening right now.

If you've been craving more time outdoors, more meaningful conversations and more moments that make life feel a little richer, at Wild Ways & Lazy Days we have got four beautiful opportunities to gather together this month.

šŸŒ• Full Moon Sauna Sessionļæ½šŸ“… Wednesday 3rd June 1750-1850
An evening of warmth, sea air and good company beneath the Full Moon.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1987620773238?aff=oddtdtcreator

🌿 Soul Sister Circleļæ½šŸ“… Thursday 4th June 1900-2100
This month's circle is all about reclaiming life beyond the weekend. A gentle evening of seasonal reflection, conversation and connection with like minded women.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1985446684480?aff=oddtdtcreator

šŸŒ‘ New Moon Sauna Sessionļæ½šŸ“… Wednesday 17th June 1750-1850
A quieter, more reflective gathering by the sea as we prepare to welcome the Summer Solstice.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1987621147357?aff=oddtdtcreator

ā˜€ļø Summer Solstice Sunrise Experienceļæ½šŸ“… Sunday 21st June
Perhaps the one I'm most excited about.
We'll set off before dawn, walk beneath the stars towards Old Harry Rocks, watch the sunrise over the sea on the longest day of the year, share warm cacao, enjoy a seaside sauna, gather for breakfast and take the steam train back to Corfe Castle.

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/1990718952977?aff=oddtdtcreator

Honestly, it sounds a little magical even writing it.

For all Wild Ways & Lazy Days Events please visit
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/o/wild-ways-lazy-days-115140735471

Or www.wildwayslazydays.co.uk

If one of these is calling to you, I'd love to see you there.

Emmajo

The bank holiday is behind us and I am really not ready to let go of that slower feeling yet This weekend felt like the ...
26/05/2026

The bank holiday is behind us and I am really not ready to let go of that slower feeling yet

This weekend felt like the first real taste of summer. Everybody seemed softer somehow. People were outside more. Gardens were full. Coffee tasted better drunk in the sunshine instead of whilst answering emails. Even the evenings felt different because nobody wanted to waste the light.

And then today arrived and suddenly everybody is back in a rush again as though none of it ever happened.

But it is still warm outside. The evenings are still long. May is still here.
I was sitting outside earlier thinking about how quickly we slip back into autopilot after weekends like this. We wait all year for the sunshine and then spend most of it indoors staring at screens and telling ourselves we will enjoy life properly when things calm down a bit.

But some of the nicest parts of this weekend were not big things at all.
Taking my coffee outside in my favourite mug.
Walking without headphones in for once.
Eating later because it was still light outside.
Standing in the garden doing absolutely nothing for ten minutes.

None of those things needed a long weekend.

So I think this week I am going to try a little harder not to rush straight back into survival mode just because it is Tuesday.

I am going to sit outside with my lunch if the weather stays like this. I am going to leave my phone inside sometimes. I am going to stay outside a little longer tonight because these are the evenings we spend all winter waiting for.

Small things really. But small things change the way life feels.

Which one are you trying this week?

And if you want something beautiful to help slow your May down even more, my free Seasonal Notes bundle is waiting for you. Three gentle audios and a PDF. Comment May for the link

This weekend felt like the first real glimpse of summer didn’t it ā˜€ļøHot gardens.Bare feet.Coffee outside in the morning ...
25/05/2026

This weekend felt like the first real glimpse of summer didn’t it ā˜€ļø

Hot gardens.
Bare feet.
Coffee outside in the morning and staying outdoors later than usual because nobody wanted to waste the sunshine.

And now somehow it is already Monday morning and June is sitting just around the corner.

I was sitting outside earlier thinking about how quickly seasons can pass when we are busy planning the next thing before we have even properly lived the one we are in.

So I made something gentle for these last days of May.

Three audio notes and a beautiful PDF filled with seasonal reflections, journaling prompts, nature notes, recipes, hedgerow inspiration, what to sow and grow, and simple reminders to feel more connected to your life whilst you are actually living it.

Nothing preachy.
Nothing about becoming a whole new person by June.

Just something lovely for a slow bank holiday Monday.

Comment MAY and I’ll send you the free downloads 🌿

This is for the woman who started the week already exhausted.You don’t need to earn your rest.If you are already feeling...
12/05/2026

This is for the woman who started the week already exhausted.

You don’t need to earn your rest.

If you are already feeling behind, this is for you.

Your life might look full, but if it feels flat or disconnected, that is not something to push through. It is something to pay attention to.

You are not too sensitive. You are not asking for too much. You are living in a pace that is out of sync with what you actually need.

And that quiet feeling that something is missing?

That is your cue.

Not to do more, but to come back to yourself. To slow down. To build a way of living that feels good to be inside, not just something that looks good from the outside.

That is exactly what I am creating with Flourish.

A space for women who are ready to stop running on empty and start living with depth, calm, and intention.

If you know it is time for something to change, you do not need to wait.

Comment WAITLIST and I will send you the details first.

07/05/2026

Last night I shared a little glimpse of the process behind building something new. Sticky notes everywhere. Notebooks open. Ideas slowly taking shape.

It made me realise how much I still love creating like this. Slowly. Thoughtfully. Piece by piece.

And honestly, I think that’s part of the problem with modern life. So much of it asks us to move too quickly to properly notice it whilst we are inside it.

The first coffee outside when the air still feels cool. Washing drying in the sun. Windows open late into the evening. Salt left on your skin after a sea swim. Tiny ordinary moments that somehow end up being the things we remember most.

Meanwhile so many women are quietly exhausted.

Not dramatically. Just a constant feeling of being slightly behind on their own lives.

I don’t think we need to throw everything away and become different people.

I think we need to build lives and businesses that actually nourish us whilst we are living them.

More space.
More glimmers.
More intention.
More softness.
More moments that feel like ours again.

This is the conversation I keep coming back to lately.

And it’s slowly becoming something called Flourish - In Full Bloom 🌿

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